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Understanding Metabolic Health: The Role of Temperature and Pulse

How to Use Temperature and Pulse for Metabolic Health Insights

In the summer of 2020, my health began to take a dive. Years of chronic dieting, over-exercising, negative self-talk, and hormonal birth control were taking their toll. I was eating next to no carbs, minimal sugar, low fat, no dairy, and only lean protein. I was working out six days a week, doing hours of cardio, and feeling terrible physically, mentally, and emotionally. Hypothyroid and adrenal symptoms began to emerge. It was clear my lifestyle was working against my physiology. My metabolism felt ‘broken’ or ‘slow,’ but in reality, I was undernourished and overstressed.

Initially, I started tracking basal temperature but did not include resting pulse rates. At the time, my average temperatures were 96.5°F, and my pulse was 44 bpm. Discovering the “pro-metabolic” community introduced me to the research of Dr. Ray Peat and Dr. Broda Barnes, and it changed my perspective.

According to Dr. Raymond Peat, a well-nourished, healthy human should have a resting pulse of 85+ beats per minute. A high resting pulse (in the absence of stress) indicates good metabolic health and a strong ability to repair. This counters mainstream advice, which often celebrates a low resting heart rate as a marker of fitness.

Why Temps and Pulses Matter

Your thyroid acts as your body’s thermostat, controlling metabolism. Metabolism is the sum of all biochemical reactions in the body—essentially, the rate of energy production in the cells and the speed of bodily processes. Body temperature reflects metabolic activity, and people with underperforming thyroids often have low basal body temperatures.

Tracking basal body temperature and resting pulse provides insights into your thyroid and metabolic function:

  • Basal body temperature can indicate if ovulation has occurred, reflecting progesterone production (a pro-thyroid hormone).
  • Resting pulse shows how well your body is utilizing nutrients and oxygen.
  • Tracking post-meal temperatures and pulses helps identify stress responses and metabolic efficiency.

How to Track Temps and Pulses

To get accurate and actionable insights, follow these steps: Log your readings daily to identify trends over time. Note factors like stress, sleep, meals, and menstrual cycle phases that might influence your results.

  • Choose the Right Thermometer
    • Use a digital thermometer with a quick response time and high accuracy.
    • Glass basal thermometers are also effective but require more time to measure.
  • Measuring Basal Temperature
    • Take your temperature first thing in the morning, immediately after waking, and before getting out of bed.
    • Place the thermometer under your tongue for the most reliable reading. Avoid using armpit readings as they can be less accurate due to environmental factors.
  • Measuring Resting Pulse
    • Use a wearable device, like a fitness tracker, to measure your resting pulse overnight or immediately upon waking.
    • Alternatively, place your index and middle fingers on your wrist or neck to manually count beats for 60 seconds.
  • After Meals
    • Check your temperature and pulse 30-40 minutes after breakfast. These should gently rise after eating, as food lowers stress and generates heat. If they drop, it may indicate elevated stress hormones upon waking.
  • Track Afternoon Readings
    • Record your temperature and pulse between 1-3 p.m. when your body’s temperature should naturally peak.
  • Use a Tracking App or Journal

Questioning the Mainstream Narrative

The Mayo Clinic states: “Generally, a lower heart rate at rest implies more efficient heart function and better cardiovascular fitness. For example, a well-trained athlete might have a normal resting heart rate closer to 40 beats per minute.”

But is a low resting heart rate truly beneficial? Evidence suggests otherwise. Thyroid health—the thermostat of the body—plays a crucial role in metabolism. A sluggish thyroid often correlates with lower body temperatures and slower heart rates, indicators of reduced metabolic function.

Why Temperature and Pulse Matter

Metabolism refers to the sum of all biochemical reactions in the body. It’s essentially the rate of energy production at the cellular level—the speed at which your body processes and utilizes energy. Your body temperature is a reflection of this activity. People with under-functioning thyroids tend to exhibit low basal body temperatures and slower pulses, which can indicate:

  • Low thyroid function
  • Inflammation
  • Suppressed immune function
  • High stress
  • Estrogen dominance

In contrast, a warm body is linked to better immune function, efficient digestion, reduced inflammation, and overall metabolic health.

How to Track Temperature and Pulse

Tracking these metrics throughout the day provides invaluable insights into your metabolic health:

  • Upon Waking:
    • Follicular Phase: 97.2-97.8°F
    • Luteal Phase: 98.6°F
    • Resting pulse: 75-90 bpm
  • After Breakfast:
    • Temperatures and pulse should gently rise after meals. Food lowers stress and generates heat. If your numbers drop, it may indicate falsely elevated waking temps due to stress hormones like cortisol.
  • Afternoon:
    • Temperatures should peak between 1-3 PM.

What Your Numbers Reveal

  • Higher temp and pulse (in the absence of stress): Optimal metabolic function
  • Normal temp and higher pulse: Active stress response
  • Lower temp and lower pulse: Chronic stress and metabolic suppression
  • Normal temp and lower pulse: Chronic stress or low thyroid function

How to Optimize Your Numbers

If your temperature and pulse rates aren’t within optimal ranges, consider the following steps:

  1. Prioritize bioavailable protein: Aim for at least 100 grams per day.
  2. Eat enough calories: 1,800-2,000+ per day, depending on individual needs.
  3. Include digestible carbs: At least 150 grams daily (e.g., honey, maple syrup, fruit, root vegetables).
  4. Pair carbs with protein: Avoid “naked carbs” to stabilize blood sugar.
  5. Focus on anabolic exercise: Build muscle with strength training to boost metabolism.

Why This Matters

Using temperature and pulse as tools, you can:

  • Monitor how well your body utilizes energy.
  • Evaluate recovery from exercise.
  • Gain insights into hormonal balance (e.g., progesterone production and ovulation).
  • Identify the impacts of stress on your physiology.

Final Thoughts

Key Takeaways By regularly monitoring your temps and pulses, you can uncover patterns and make adjustments to optimize your thyroid and metabolic health. These small, daily practices provide powerful insights into how your body is functioning and what it needs to thrive.

Healing is never a final destination; it’s an ongoing journey. Over time, I’ve seen significant improvements in my metabolic markers. My overall body temperature has risen to 97.6–98.1°F, and my resting pulse is now around 70 bpm—much better than where I started. This progress has required me to embrace a larger body size than what traditional “fit fam” culture promotes, but it has been worth it. Prioritizing healing and hormone rebalancing has provided my body with the sense of safety and stability it needed to thrive.

To read more about the doctor that pioneered these tests grab the book called Hypothyroidism: The unsuspected illness by Dr. Broda Barnes

✌🏼Looking for more support navigating your cycle with fitness & nutrition? Check out my FREE guide & pro-metabolic strength training guide available for purchase!

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Dr. Ray Peat

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Ditch the Quick Fix: Building Habits That Actually Stick

Reframing the New Year: Rejecting Quick Fixes for Sustainable Growth

Welcome to Season 3 of Taste of Truth Tuesdays! 🎉 We’re kicking off with a bang, diving deep into a topic near and dear to my heart. After two decades in the fitness industry, I’ve got some game-changing insights, tips, and no-nonsense truths to share. You won’t want to miss a single minute of today’s episode💪✨

The New Year is here, and you’ve probably seen the tidal wave of ads pushing detoxes, cleanses, and resets. Let me stop you right there: NO, you do NOT need a detox, cleanse, or reset after the holidays.

When I say, “quick fix,” what comes to mind? Maybe it’s a detox tea promising to cleanse your system, a miracle shake that claims to replace your meals, or even the latest pharmaceutical weight-loss drug like Ozempic, used off label and hailed as the “solution” to stubborn fat. Quick fixes thrive on our desperation for immediate results. They’re marketed as shortcuts—whispering, “This will solve all your problems,” no patience or hard work required. 🫣

But here’s the hard truth: quick fixes rarely fix anything. Whether it’s a detox, a cleanse, or a medication designed to suppress your appetite, they often bypass the root causes of your concerns. They don’t teach you how to nourish your body or rebuild a healthy relationship with food. Instead, they slap a band-aid on symptoms while creating long-term consequences for your metabolism, hormones, and mental well-being.

Take Ozempic, for example. While it’s been touted as a “miracle” weight-loss drug, there are some serious health warnings that aren’t always front and center. As with significant weight loss in general, some people using these drugs experience muscle loss and lower bone density, increasing the risk of injury—especially for older adults.

In animal studies, semaglutide (the drug behind Ozempic) has been linked to an increased risk of thyroid cancer, including medullary thyroid carcinoma. While we don’t yet know if this risk translates to humans, it’s something to be aware of—especially if you have a family history of thyroid conditions. And let’s not forget the FDA’s 2023 warning about potential intestinal blockage associated with these medications, although the evidence so far shows it’s more about slowed gastric emptying and vomiting mimicking an obstruction.

And here’s the kicker—while these quick fixes promise to reshape your body in a short period, they often come with a slew of side effects that are rarely discussed. The key to managing those risks? Pay attention to your diet, listen to your body, and stay hydrated. But I can’t help but wonder: is the price tag on this “quick fix” really worth it?

In my own journey, I repeatedly fell for these promises—from replacing real food with Smart Start cereal, to taking ephedra and green tea energy pills in high school, and in my 30s, chasing the next shake, cleanse, or some ridiculous holistic protocol that promised to transform my body overnight. Spoiler alert: it never worked the way I hoped, and sometimes, it made things worse.

Today, we’re pulling back the curtain on quick fixes, diving into why they’re so appealing, and exposing the truth about detoxes, cleanses, and even medications like Ozempic. Because your health deserves more than a shortcut—it deserves a sustainable, thoughtful approach rooted in a long-term sense of well-being.

Let’s start by breaking down the dangers of these so-called “solutions” and why they often cause more harm than good.

🚨 The Dangers of Detoxes and Cleanses

Let me start by sharing a bit about my personal experience with Isagenix, an MLM I was involved in for four years. Their program revolved around “shake days” and “cleanse days.” Shake days required replacing two meals with shakes, leaving you with just 1,200-1,500 calories a day. Cleanse days were even more extreme: 24-48 hours of intermittent fasting where you consumed only “approved” snacks—essentially glorified candies from their product line.

These cleanse days were touted as the secret to triggering autophagy, “cleaning up your cells,” and building muscle while shedding fat. But for me, the reality couldn’t have been further from the sales pitch. Instead of gaining energy, building muscle, or feeling cleansed, I experienced fatigue, hormonal disruptions, and a worsening relationship with food.

I want to clarify here: if you’re under the care of a well-educated, integrative professional who has run labs and prescribed a short-term liver cleanse or restrictive protocol tailored to your needs, this isn’t directed at you. I’m talking to the folks who, like me, were misled by the marketing tactics of supplement companies, MLMs, and Pinterest ads. These programs prey on our insecurities while delivering none of the promised benefits.

Here’s why these quick-fix detoxes and cleanses are more harmful than helpful:

They Deplete Your Energy Over Time

On those “cleanse days,” I often felt like I was running on fumes. Severely restricting food intake forces your body to pull from its energy reserves, leaving you fatigued, irritable, and unable to function optimally.
Over time, this restriction triggers metabolic adaptation, slowing down your metabolism to conserve energy. Instead of speeding up fat loss, it makes your body cling to every calorie it gets, making future weight management even harder.

They Disrupt Hormonal Health

My cleanse days wreaked havoc on my hormones. The lack of consistent nourishment interferes with thyroid hormone conversion and overactivated the adrenal glands, increasing cortisol production. Chronic high cortisol levels undermine immunity, energy, and mood.
For women, the risks are even greater. Prolonged restriction sends your body into survival mode, disrupting your reproductive hormones. I dealt with irregular periods, cold extremities, and even hair thinning—all signs that my body was prioritizing survival over reproduction.

They Create Nutritional Deficiencies

When you cut out food, you cut out nutrients. The shakes and supplements from Isagenix were marketed as “nutritionally complete,” but they couldn’t compare to the diversity and richness of whole foods. This reliance on synthetic supplements is not a sustainable way to meet your nutritional needs.

They Damage Your Relationship with Food

One of the most insidious effects of these programs was how they warped my relationship with food. By constantly restricting and “cleansing,” I lost touch with hunger cues and began seeing food as the enemy. At one point, my appetite diminished, which might sound like a win in hustle culture, but it was actually a red flag. Our bodies need food to fuel productivity, creativity, and overall well-being. Sacrificing health in the name of hustle isn’t the flex diet culture makes it out to be.

The Bottom Line

Programs like the one I was involved in sell you the illusion of health while delivering energy depletion, hormonal imbalance, and long-term damage to your metabolism. Sustainable growth comes from nourishing your body, listening to its needs, and rejecting the false promises of quick fixes.

If you’re considering a cleanse or detox, ask yourself: is this supporting my long-term health, or am I falling for a marketing gimmick? 

💡 What Your Body Actually Needs

Your body thrives on consistency, nourishment, and balance. That’s why the 365 Easy Challenge focuses on six foundational habits to create sustainable growth:

  • Gratitude – Build a positive mindset by reflecting daily on what you’re thankful for.
  • Digestion – Support your gut with mindful eating practices and nourishing foods.
  • Sleep – Prioritize restorative rest to boost energy and metabolism.
  • Mindset/Self Talk – By reframing, shift your mindset to approach challenges with resilience.
  • Stress Management & Nutrition – Balance your life and plate without extremes.

These habits aren’t about perfection—they’re about progress. You can join in any time and make this year about sustainable, steady growth. One phrase I often say often to clients:

“Slow is steady and steady is fast.”

Seven Things I Wish I Knew Sooner

In this episode, we’re tackling the first four lessons I wish I’d learned earlier in my nutrition and fitness journey. These are insights that can save you time, frustration, and even your health.

1. Extreme Diets Have Extreme Consequences

If you’ve ever thought, “I just need to cut calories harder,” let me stop you right there. Extreme diets may promise quick results, but they come with a hefty price tag on your body.

Research, such as the Biggest Loser Study (PMID: 27136388), reveals a major roadblock: metabolic adaptation. Your body isn’t wired for vanity; it’s wired for survival. When you restrict calories excessively, your body compensates to preserve energy—this can continue for years after the diet ends (PMID: 35729736).

Here’s what that looks like:

  • Calorie restriction becomes less effective over time.
  • Your metabolic rate slows down, making it harder to maintain or continue fat loss.
  • You feel frustrated, but it’s your body hitting the brakes, not your willpower failing.

Takeaway: Your body isn’t out to sabotage you; it’s protecting you. The solution? Nutritional periodization. Incorporate diet breaks, maintenance phases, and even reverse dieting to minimize these adaptations.

2. Restrictive Diets Wreck Hormonal Health

Chronic or yo-yo dieting isn’t just stressful for your mind—it’s a major stressor for your body. Prolonged restrictions can negatively impact your:

  • Adrenal system: Chronic stress triggers the HPA axis, increasing cortisol. While cortisol is essential in moderation, consistently high levels can negatively impact energy, mood, and immunity.
  • Thyroid: High stress interferes with TSH production and the conversion of thyroid hormones, which are vital for metabolism.
  • Reproductive hormones: Missing or irregular periods, hair loss, and constant coldness? These are signs your body isn’t feeling “safe” enough to prioritize reproduction.

Minimum body fat is necessary to maintain reproductive health, especially for women. Hormones like progesterone, critical for ovulation and metabolism, rely on nutrient availability and a sense of safety

Takeaway: Your body isn’t the enemy—it’s doing its best with the fuel and signals you’re giving it. Support your hormones by eating enough, maintaining balance, and avoiding extreme restrictions. PMID: 2282736

3. Exercise + Intermittent Fasting = Double Trouble for Women

Adding intense exercise to intermittent fasting might sound like a fast track to results, but for women, it’s a recipe for dysfunction. Here’s why:

Women’s bodies are highly sensitive to kisspeptin, a neuropeptide critical for reproductive and endocrine health. Diets like keto and intermittent fasting can disrupt kisspeptin production, leading to:

  • Endocrine dysfunction.
  • Menstrual irregularities.
  • Depression and increased abdominal fat (yes, the opposite of what you wanted).

Half of all active women aren’t eating enough to support basic functions, let alone training. The long-term impact? Impaired thyroid function, stalled muscle growth, and metabolic imbalance.

Takeaway: Women need nourishment, especially when training hard. Fasting and exercise together often do more harm than good, leaving your body stressed instead of thriving.

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Dr. Stacy Sims

4. A Healthy Relationship with Exercise is Flexible and Fulfilling

Exercise is amazing for your body and mind, but even a good thing can become harmful when taken to extremes.

Exercise addiction is a compulsive engagement in physical activity, despite negative consequences. It often comes with:

  • Excessive rules and rigidity.
  • Feelings of shame before, during, or after workouts.
  • Withdrawal symptoms when unable to exercise.

In contrast, a healthy relationship with exercise is:

  • Flexible: It allows for variety in movement types and durations.
  • Fulfilling: It’s rooted in joy and self-care, not punishment or guilt.

Takeaway: The best kind of movement is the one that enriches your life, not rules it. Exercise should add value to your day, not take away from it.

✨ Let’s Leave Hustle Culture in 2024👋

Hustle culture says, “Eat less, work more, and sacrifice rest to succeed.” This mindset isn’t empowering—it’s exhausting. This year, let’s prioritize health over hustle and choose habits that energize rather than deplete.

The 365 Easy Challenge is here to help you make that shift. Whether it’s gratitude, better sleep, or balanced nutrition, these small steps add up to big changes over time.

Takeaway for 2025: This year, skip the detox and focus on what truly works: habits that honor your body’s needs, not a quick-fix fantasy. If you’re ready to embrace sustainable growth, join the 365 Easy Challenge and start building a foundation for lifelong health.

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It’s never too late to jump in—let’s grow together!

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The Hidden Tactics of Big Food and Big Tobacco

A Christmas Lesson in Gaslighting

As we gather around our holiday tables, indulging in sweet treats and sipping warm drinks, there’s something deeply unsettling happening behind the scenes of what we consume every day. A recent study has revealed something I find all too familiar: intimidation tactics used by industries like Big Tobacco, ultra-processed food companies, and alcohol sectors to bully and silence researchers, whistleblowers, and anyone challenging their agenda.

These industries have a long history of using misinformation, manufactured doubt, and emotional manipulation to protect their profits—and it’s not just limited to public health campaigns. This plays out in everyday conversations, too. It’s a pattern that many of us have experienced firsthand, especially those who advocate for healthier lifestyles and more transparency in what we put in our bodies.

A Christmas Paradox: Big Food’s Gaslighting & the Anti-MLM Pushback

This tactic—used by Big Food to discredit critics—reminds me of the way people are shamed or bullied for questioning processed foods or advocating for healthier diets. If you’ve ever pointed out the risks of sugary snacks or fast food, you’ve probably been labeled an extremist, a health-obsessed “wellness warrior,” or worse, a “purity culture” advocate. I can’t help but feel this is just another form of gaslighting, where we’re told that it’s worse to worry about the ingredients in our food than it is to consume those ingredients, even if they are known to contribute to chronic health conditions.

Ironically, this kind of manipulation is the same strategy Big Tobacco used for decades to muddy the waters around the health risks of smoking. And now, ultra-processed food companies are doing the same thing—distracting us from the very real, documented consequences of a poor diet.

Why We Need to Trust Ourselves, Not the Experts

What frustrates me is how the anti-MLM community often jumps on wellness advocates who want to clean up their diets for health reasons. While I agree that MLMs are a breeding ground for manipulation, this should not mean we ignore the very real need to question the food industry’s stranglehold on our diets and health. It’s vital to recognize that not all experts have your best interests at heart. Many of the mainstream recommendations we’re told to follow come from organizations or industries with questionable motives—whether it’s Big Pharma, Big Food, or Big Tobacco. These same industries have a long history of misleading the public, and many of their experts are bought and paid for by corporate interests.

Wanting to improve your diet to manage or reverse chronic health conditions shouldn’t be dismissed as obsessive or extreme. It’s a rational, self-preserving choice that empowers you to take control of your health, even when the mainstream narrative tells you otherwise.

Unwrapping the Truth This Holiday Season

This holiday season, let’s unwrap a new perspective: critical thinking over consumerism, authenticity over convenience, and self-empowerment over external pressures. It’s time we stop letting industries dictate our health choices and start reclaiming agency in what we put into our bodies.

If you’ve ever been gaslighted for your food choices, or made to feel like you’re ‘too much’ for caring about your health, know you’re not alone. The more we learn about these intimidation tactics, the better equipped we’ll be to call them out.

As we approach the new year, let’s challenge the status quo—questioning not just what’s on our plates, but the motives of the systems that feed us.

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Season 3 of Taste of Truth Tuesdays: Launching December 31st

We’re back! After a transformative and eye-opening second season, I’m excited to announce that Season 3 of Taste of Truth Tuesdays will kick off on December 31st. (Audio says Jan 7th, which was the original start date, I bumped it up a week.) This season promises to be packed with even more riveting conversations and insightful discussions. We’re diving into the complexities of spirituality, healing, activism, mental health, body image, and the power dynamics that shape our lives.

Here’s a sneak peek at the incredible guests you’ll hear from in the upcoming season:

Connie A. Baker: Spiritual and Religious Abuse

Connie A. Baker brings her expertise and personal experience to discuss the destructive impacts of spiritually abusive messages. These messages often erode our self-trust, leaving us vulnerable to further harm. In our conversation, we’ll explore the process of recovering from spiritual abuse and why it’s essential not to rush this journey. Connie will help us understand how survivors—especially those of us with a default setting of ‘push through’—can slow down and approach the healing process with patience. This wisdom is invaluable for true recovery, and I can’t wait for you to hear Connie’s insights.

Yasmine Mohammed: Escaping Radical Islam and Advocating for Women’s Rights

Yasmine Mohammed, a human rights activist and author of Unveiled: How Western Liberals Empower Radical Islam, joins me to share her powerful story. After escaping a forced, abusive marriage to an Al-Qaeda operative, Yasmine became an advocate for women’s rights. Through her non-profit organization, Free Hearts, Free Minds, she works tirelessly to support individuals seeking freedom from oppressive environments. Her memoir and activism offer a deeply personal and courageous perspective on overcoming adversity and empowering women. Her journey is one of survival, strength, and defiance.

Leah Denton: Therapy Harm and Power Dynamics in Mental Health

Leah Denton, the brilliant host of Psycho/Therapy podcast, will bring her deep insights into the harm that can occur within the therapeutic space and pastoral counseling. Leah, a survivor of therapy harm herself, shines a light on the ethical and systemic flaws within the mental health industry. She amplifies the voices of those who’ve been silenced and challenges us to rethink the power dynamics that can influence our healing. Leah’s work is a powerful call to action for better, more ethical care in therapy and beyond.

The Wellbeing Doctors: Body Image and Social Media’s Impact on Mental Health

Dr. Hannah Jarman and Ms. Claudia Liu, the dynamic team behind The Wellbeing Doctors, will discuss the intersection of body image, disordered eating, and the profound impact that social media has on our mental health. In their research, they’ve uncovered how active engagement with peers on social media can immediately reduce body image satisfaction, particularly for women. Together, we’ll explore how we need to redefine both beauty and health in ways that promote our true well-being, beyond appearances.

Wellness with Jaqui: The Real Story Behind Nutrition Research

Jaqui is back to break down the often-confusing world of nutrition research. If you’ve ever been baffled by conflicting diet headlines, this episode is for you. Jaqui will help us understand why nutrition research can be so complex, and how ‘statistical significance’ might not always mean what we think it does. This episode will bring clarity to the world of nutrition science and challenge the headlines we often see.

Franklin O’Kanu: Bridging Science, Spirituality, and Practical Wisdom

Franklin O’Kanu, also known as The Alchemik Pharmacist, is the founder of Unorthodoxy, a Substack that explores the spiritual dimensions of modern life through a holistic lens. With a Doctorate in Pharmacy and a background that bridges Pentecostal Christianity, Eastern philosophies, quantum physics, and Jungian psychology, Franklin offers a truly unique perspective. We’ll dive into his journey—from challenging conventional views during the pandemic to crafting a plan rooted in spiritual and natural principles. Franklin’s exploration of science, spirituality, and practical wisdom is sure to offer deep insights and foster a deeper understanding of the world around us.

This season is going to be a wild ride, full of wisdom, courage, and deep dives into essential topics that will challenge and inspire you. Don’t miss out on the launch of Taste of Truth Tuesdays Season 3 on December 31st! Make sure you’re subscribed, so you never miss an episode.

Stay curious. Stay skeptical. And, as always, keep tuning in! 🎙️🔒

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Embracing the Season: Winter Solstice, Holidays, and New Year Goals

Welcome back to Taste of Truth Tuesdays! With the winter solstice just days away, we’re officially in the home stretch of 2024. The shortest day of the year reminds us to embrace the darkness while we prepare for the return of the light. It’s a reflective time—perfect for thinking about the holidays, setting intentions, and crafting meaningful goals for the new year. Today, we’re unpacking all of this, diving into the science of motivation, and introducing the 365 Easy Challenge. If you’re ready to create lasting habits that stick, you’re in the right place. Stick around until the end for December journal prompts designed to help you close out the year with clarity. Let’s get started!

The Truth About Motivation

Let’s start by busting a common myth: motivation is NOT the secret sauce to achieving your goals. It’s more like an internal campfire. You have to keep stoking it, or it fizzles out. Motivation, whether intrinsic or extrinsic, is unreliable. Intrinsic motivation comes from within — like your desire to be healthy or curious. Extrinsic motivation, like fitness challenges or rewards, comes from external sources.

So, what’s the science behind this? Motivation is tied to our brain’s reward system. Dopamine plays a critical role—it’s the “feel-good” chemical released when we anticipate a reward. But here’s the catch: dopamine isn’t just about pleasure; it’s about seeking. This is why motivation can be fleeting—once the novelty of the reward wears off, so does the drive. This is where habits and routines come in. They remove the need to rely on motivation alone, anchoring actions in consistency instead of fleeting feelings.

Awareness is the foundation of meaningful change. You can’t fix what you don’t know is broken. That’s why our 365 Easy Challenge emphasizes building habits that last, not just riding the highs of short-term motivation.

Why Traditional Challenges Fall Short

Have you ever tried extreme diets like Whole 30 or intense challenges like 75 Hard? While these can inspire short bursts of action, they often fail to teach sustainable skills. The problem isn’t laziness or lack of discipline; it’s unrealistic goals and focusing on what others are doing instead of tailoring solutions to your needs.

Science supports this too: extreme approaches often activate the brain’s stress response, making it harder to sustain willpower. Cortisol, the stress hormone, can hijack your decision-making, leading to burnout or impulsive choices. Instead, we need to focus on actions that align with our values and fit seamlessly into our lives.

This year, we’re flipping the script. The 365 Easy Challenge is all about mastering the basics — simple, sustainable actions that create consistency. Remember, consistency builds routines, and routines drive results.

Introducing the 365 Easy Challenge

Here’s the breakdown: The challenge focuses on six foundational habits:

  • Brain Reframe 🧠
    Your body doesn’t need a “reset” — your brain does! Shift the focus to what you’re adding, not subtracting. More protein, more fruits & veggies, more movement. It’s all about progress, not perfection. Spend five minutes daily countering negative self-talk with rational, supportive statements. This rewires neural pathways and strengthens your brain’s ability to shift perspectives, helping you stay aligned with your goals.
  • Stress Management (and Your Mindset Around Stress) 😤
    Stress is the silent killer of self-control and health. Managing stress isn’t just about chill vibes; it’s about understanding your stress and handling it like the boss you are. Take intentional movement breaks, practice deep breathing, and reframe stress as a challenge, not a threat. Movement enhances endorphin release, while reframing stress alters its impact on your body, helping you maintain mental clarity and avoid burnout.
  • Sleep Consistently 😴
    The most underrated (yet most important) aspect of health? SLEEP. If you’re aiming for aesthetic goals, consistent sleep should be at the top of your priority list. Prioritize a bedtime routine with blue-light blocking, magnesium supplements, and a consistent schedule. Sleep affects everything from metabolism to emotional regulation. Even just one hour less sleep per night can impair cognitive function and decision-making, so get those 7-9 hours for optimal performance.
  • Digestive Health 🥦
    Your body doesn’t thrive off what you eat, but off what you can digest and absorb. Let’s get those healthy poops on track and optimize your digestion for real transformation. Eat a protein-rich breakfast within 60 minutes of waking, and practice mindful eating by chewing thoroughly. Did you know that proper chewing activates enzymes in your saliva that kickstart digestion, setting the stage for better nutrient absorption and smoother digestion throughout the day?
  • Adequate Nutrition 🍏
    Under-eating doesn’t get you anywhere good. Let’s focus on fueling your metabolism, building muscle, and living your life — so when the time comes for fat loss, it’s smoother and healthier than ever. The amount of food you need to eat per day may surprise you! Your TDEE (Total Daily Energy Expenditure) includes the energy required to support basic bodily functions (known as basal metabolic rate or BMR) and your daily physical activities. This can range from 1800-2400 calories for most individuals, so fueling your body adequately is key to long-term success.
  • Gratitude Practice 🙏
    Meditation, prayer, and focusing on gratitude are more than just buzzwords. Science shows they can actually help you stay on track with your diet and exercise goals. Start your day by writing down three things you’re grateful for. Research shows that gratitude practices enhance mental health and even improve physical health by reducing inflammation and improving sleep quality, creating a positive feedback loop that supports overall wellness.

When clients approach me desiring fat loss, we often need to shift our focus first to achieving optimal psychological and physiological baselines. Many struggle with yo-yo dieting, binge eating, a poor relationship with food, negative body image, and sporadic workout consistency. That’s why periodized nutrition—or planning strategies like reverse dieting to support metabolism—is so important. Nutrition isn’t just about cutting calories; it’s about fueling your body to thrive.

Every week, you’ll add one action from each habit category. By week five, you’ll have integrated all six habits into your routine. And it’s okay if life happens and you miss a day — progress over perfection is the goal here.

Building Sustainable Habits

Why does this approach work? Because it’s rooted in simplicity and adaptability. You’re not overhauling your life overnight or setting yourself up for burnout. Instead, you’re focusing on actions that are easy to maintain and build upon.

For example, let’s talk digestion. Did you know your body isn’t what you eat but what you can digest and absorb? Simple changes like chewing your food more thoroughly or incorporating a 10-minute walk after meals can make a huge difference in your health.

And when it comes to sleep, the science is clear: adults need 7-9 hours of quality sleep for optimal function. Creating a bedtime ritual can condition your brain to wind down, making it easier to fall asleep and stay asleep.

December Journal Prompts

As promised, here are your December journal prompts to close out the year with reflection:

  1. What was the most significant moment of your year, and why?
  2. List three accomplishments you’re most proud of this year.
  3. How have you grown as a person over the past year?
  4. Write about a goal you didn’t achieve—what held you back, and what did you learn?
  5. “This year taught me…”

Take 10 minutes to reflect on these, and you’ll start the new year with a clear mind and a motivated heart.

As you embrace the new year, remember that lasting change comes from building habits, not from a fleeting burst of motivation. By grounding yourself in gratitude, reflection, and simple daily actions, you can create a year that feels easy—and meaningful.

Check out the full 365 Easy Challenge guide for detailed steps to start your journey today.

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Let’s make 2025 a year of progress and joy!

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Master Your Sleep: Simple Hacks for Restful Nights

The holidays are here, and while it’s the season of joy, connection, and maybe a few too many late nights, it’s also the perfect time to start preparing for the 365 Easy Challenge kicking off in 2025. And let’s face it: sleep is the foundation for everything we’ll tackle together next year.

Did you know women are more likely to struggle with insomnia than men? It’s not just in your head—it’s science. Hormonal fluctuations (hello, PMS, pregnancy, and menopause) wreak havoc on your sleep cycles, making restful nights feel like a luxury you can’t afford to miss.

But here’s the real kicker: poor sleep doesn’t just leave you feeling groggy. It messes with your mood, metabolism, and even your muscles. Whether you’re juggling holiday chaos, prepping for a fresh start in January, or just trying to function, running on empty isn’t the answer. Let’s dig into why quality sleep is essential—and how to actually get it.

Why Sleep Matters More Than You Think

  1. Inflammation & Immunity
    Sleep is your body’s built-in anti-inflammatory agent. Without it, inflammation skyrockets, leaving you vulnerable to chronic diseases and poor recovery from workouts or injuries.
  2. Mental Clarity
    Brain fog isn’t just an inconvenience; it’s a sign your brain didn’t get its overnight “detox.” Sleep clears out waste products like amyloid plaques, which are linked to neurodegenerative diseases. Think of it as housekeeping for your mind—skip it, and you’re living in clutter. Braig fog + thyroid connection!
  3. Hormonal Harmony
    From cortisol to melatonin to estrogen, sleep keeps your hormones in check. Messy sleep = messy hormones, which can mean mood swings, weight gain, and irregular cycles.
  4. Circadian Rhythm & Beyond
    Your body runs on a 24-hour clock. Disrupting it—whether with late-night scrolling or inconsistent sleep times—throws everything off, including digestion, energy levels, and even hunger cues.

Sleep & Exercise: The Sneaky Saboteur

Think sleep doesn’t impact your workouts? Think again. Poor sleep leads to:

  • Slower reaction times (hello, clumsiness).
  • Increased injury risk (because you’re tired and uncoordinated).
  • Longer recovery times (muscles can’t repair without rest).
  • Heightened fatigue (making you feel like you’re dragging through every rep).

💡 Quick fix: Research shows a 45-minute afternoon nap can improve performance and lower perceived effort. Translation: naps aren’t lazy; they’re strategic.

Bedtime Hacks for Better Rest

  1. Dim the Lights
    Block blue and green light from screens, lower the brightness, and dim the room 1–2 hours before bed.
  2. Chill Out
    Literally—lower your bedroom temperature to around 65°F (18°C). Cooler temps signal your body it’s time to rest.
  3. Silence & Darkness
    Total darkness (blackout curtains or a sleep mask) + white noise or earplugs = your best chance at uninterrupted rest. My favorite sleep track
  4. Stick to a Schedule
    Consistency is key. Aim to go to bed and wake up at the same time—even on weekends.
  5. Don’t Force It
    Wake up in the middle of the night? Get out of bed briefly to reset instead of tossing and turning.

Level Up Your Sleep with Bedtime Gummies

Let’s talk about a bedtime treat that actually works: Tart Cherry Gummies. Packed with melatonin and glycine, they’re a natural way to ease into deeper, more restful sleep.

Why Glycine Rocks:

  • Helps you fall asleep faster.
  • Improves sleep quality and efficiency.
  • Eases symptoms of insomnia.

Recipe:

  • 1 cup tart cherry juice
  • 1 cup water
  • 4 tbsp beef gelatin
  • Maple syrup (to taste)
  1. Bloom the gelatin in half the juice for 3–5 minutes.
  2. Heat the remaining juice, then combine.
  3. Pour into molds or a dish and refrigerate.

The Takeaway

Sleep isn’t a luxury—it’s a lifeline. From balancing your hormones to enhancing your brainpower, it impacts every aspect of your health. If you’re still treating it like an afterthought, it’s time to flip the script.

Now, tell me: what’s your biggest sleep struggle, and which hack are you going to try first? 💤

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Master Your Digestion This Holiday Season

Posting on a Wednesday? Guess my calendar’s been indulging in holiday cookies too.

Yep, we’re shaking things up this week! Whether you’re catching up on leftovers or prepping for your next holiday feast, now’s the perfect time to talk about digestion. After all, it’s the unsung hero of health—working overtime while we’re busy piling on the mashed potatoes

This post also kicks off a sneak peek into January’s 365 Easy Challenge, where we’ll focus on mastering six foundational habits to make 2025 your healthiest year yet. So, grab a cozy beverage, and let’s dig into how to keep your gut happy (and your pants buttoned) this holiday season.

Why Digestion Deserves the Spotlight

Let’s be real: you can load up on the healthiest foods, but if your digestion isn’t working properly, your body can’t absorb all those nutrients. Instead of diving into advanced gut protocols, let’s focus on digestive basics—those everyday habits that can transform how you feel after a meal.

From holiday feasts to office potlucks, the season is full of opportunities to test your digestive system. If you’ve ever felt bloated, gassy, or sluggish post-meal, you’re not alone. These are signs your gut might need a little TLC.

The Big Three Digestive Culprits

  1. Stress: Chronic stress throws your digestive system into chaos, slowing it down and causing discomfort.
  2. Rushed Eating: Gulping your meals doesn’t give your body time to process food properly.
  3. Poor Chewing: Chewing is where digestion starts, but many of us rush through it like it’s a race.

What to Do Instead:

  • Set the Scene: Before you eat, take a deep breath, relax, and engage your parasympathetic nervous system (aka your “rest and digest” mode).
  • Slow Down: Put your fork down between bites and chew each one 20–30 times. Yes, it feels slow at first, but it’s worth it!
  • Be Present: Step away from distractions like phones or TVs and focus on your food.

The Unsung Heroes of Digestion

1. Stomach Acid (HCL):
Stomach acid is crucial for breaking down protein and absorbing nutrients like zinc, iron, calcium, and B12. It also acts as your body’s first line of defense against harmful bacteria.

🙅‍♀️ Stop: Overusing antacids or skipping protein-rich meals.
✔️ Start: Eating a nutrient-dense diet, practicing mindful eating, and managing stress to naturally support stomach acid production.

2. Digestive Enzymes:
Digestive enzymes break down food so your body can absorb the nutrients. Without enough enzymes, you may experience bloating, constipation, or gas.

🙅‍♀️ Stop: Rushing meals and lying down immediately after eating.
✔️ Start: Chewing thoroughly, walking after meals, and addressing inflammation.

3. Bile Production:
Bile is essential for breaking down fats so your body can absorb them. If bile production is compromised, you might miss out on the benefits of healthy fats like omega-3s.

🙅‍♀️ Stop: Relying on low-fat diets or consuming unhealthy fats like vegetable oils.
✔️ Start: Eating healthy fats (avocado, olive oil, grass-fed butter) and supporting stomach acid levels.

A Healthy Gut Microbiome: Your Digestive Sidekick

Your gut bacteria play a vital role in digestion and overall health. To keep your microbiome balanced:

  • Eat a variety of fiber-rich foods like kale, spinach, swiss chard, cabbage, leeks, turnips, carrots, beets, and artichokes.
  • Avoid overloading your system with excessive fiber, which can cause bloating or discomfort.

Nuts, Seeds, Grains & Legumes: Prep Like a Pro

These foods are nutritional powerhouses, but they contain anti-nutrients like phytic acid and enzyme inhibitors that can block digestion and deplete minerals. Preparing them properly—by soaking or sprouting—neutralizes these compounds and makes nutrients more bioavailable.

How to Soak:

  • Cover your nuts, seeds, grains, or legumes with water and a splash of vinegar or salt.
  • Let them soak overnight, rinse thoroughly, and cook as usual.

Even with proper preparation, these foods can be hard to digest, so enjoy them in moderation.

Holiday Digestion Tips

Here’s how to support your gut through the festive season:

  1. Chew your food mindfully. No one’s handing out awards for fastest eater.
  2. Go for a walk after big meals. Gentle movement aids digestion and prevents sluggishness.
  3. Stay hydrated. Your digestive system needs water to function optimally.
  4. Be intentional with your intake of highly processed refined sugars. Excess amounts can disrupt your gut flora and leave you feeling sluggish and out of balance

Takeaways for a Happy Gut

Proper digestion = better nutrient absorption = thriving health.

Before trying advanced protocols, start with the basics:

  • Chew thoroughly.
  • Manage stress.
  • Prep your meals for optimal digestion.

And don’t forget, this is just the start. In January’s 365 Easy Challenge, we’ll dive deeper into digestion and other foundational habits like sleep, stress management, and nutrition.

Let’s make 2025 the year we simplify health and feel amazing doing it!

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Overcoming Negativity: The Power of Gratitude

Thanksgiving marks a season of reflection, yet gratitude isn’t always easy to come by—especially after an election year, when cognitive overload and societal stress dominate our attention. This isn’t just a personal struggle; neuroscience suggests our brains are wired to focus on negativity, a phenomenon called negativity bias. This tendency, coupled with cultural norms emphasizing individual success and the relentless comparisons driven by social media, makes practicing gratitude a skill we must consciously develop.

In my work as a coach and host of Taste of Truth Tuesdays, I often explore how habits—like fitness, nutrition, or mindfulness—shape not just our bodies, but our minds. Gratitude operates the same way: it’s not a passive feeling, but an active practice. According to Dr. Monica Johnson, gratitude has the power to rewire your brain, reducing stress and boosting resilience. Here’s why it can be so hard—and how you can overcome those challenges.

Why Gratitude Feels So Hard

  • 1. Negativity Bias

Our brains are wired to prioritize threats and negative experiences over positive ones. This evolutionary survival mechanism can make it harder to notice or appreciate the good in our lives.

  • 2. High Expectations and Comparisons

Social media amplifies the pressure to compare our lives to others, often creating unrealistic standards. When our focus shifts to what we lack, gratitude takes a backseat.

  • 3. Cognitive Overload and Stress

Life moves fast, and our schedules are packed. Reflecting on what we’re thankful for requires slowing down—a luxury stress and busyness don’t easily allow.

  • 4. Cultural and Social Conditioning

In cultures that prize personal achievement and material success, gratitude can feel secondary. Celebrating milestones and accomplishments may overshadow smaller, everyday joys.

  • 5. Mental Health Challenges

Depression, anxiety, and trauma can make it difficult to recognize and appreciate the positives in life. These conditions often shift focus to worries, fears, or a sense of helplessness.

  • 6. Entitlement Mindset

When we feel entitled to certain comforts or successes, it diminishes our ability to see them as gifts, fostering dissatisfaction instead of gratitude.

  • 7. Lack of Practice

Gratitude is a skill, not just an attitude. Without consistent effort, it’s easy for this muscle to weaken.

The Science of Gratitude: Three Proven Strategies

Fortunately, research provides powerful tools to strengthen gratitude. These practices are straightforward, effective, and supported by science.

1. Gratitude Journaling

One of the simplest and most effective methods is keeping a gratitude journal. Regularly writing down three to five things you’re thankful for has been shown to boost emotional well-being and reduce stress.

As a gardener and homesteader, I’ve found parallels here: journaling is like planting seeds of positivity. With time, those seeds grow into a garden of resilience and contentment.

Why it works:

A study by Dr. Robert Emmons, a leading researcher on gratitude, found that journaling helps rewire the brain by reinforcing positive experiences. This practice shifts focus away from what’s missing in your life toward what’s already there.

How to do it:

  • Spend five minutes each evening listing specific things you’re grateful for.
  • Be detailed—rather than “I’m grateful for my family,” write, “I’m grateful for the family dinner we had tonight where everyone laughed together.”

2. Gratitude Letters or Visits

Writing a heartfelt letter to someone who has positively impacted your life is another effective practice. Even better? Deliver the letter in person or send it to them.

Why it works:

Research highlighted by Dr. Monica Johnson of The Savvy Psychologist shows that thanking someone you’ve never properly appreciated increases happiness immediately and for up to a month afterward. The act deepens relationships and reinforces a sense of connection.

How to do it:

  • Reflect on someone who has helped or supported you in a meaningful way.
  • Write a sincere letter describing what they did and why it mattered.
  • Deliver it, either in person, through a video call, or via mail.

For me, this practice reminds me of the people who’ve supported my journey—from launching my podcast to building a small homestead.

3. Mental Subtraction of Positive Events

Instead of focusing on what you’re grateful for, imagine your life without certain positive aspects. This “mental subtraction” technique can powerfully enhance your appreciation for what you have.

Why it works:

A study published in the Journal of Positive Psychology revealed that imagining life without key blessings intensifies gratitude by showing how much worse life could be. This perspective shift cultivates appreciation even for things we take for granted.

How to do it:

  • Think about a cherished relationship, opportunity, or moment in your life.
  • Reflect on how your life would be without it.
  • Let this realization deepen your gratitude for that aspect of your life.

I often reflect on what life would be like without the small joys I’ve cultivated—like watching our garden grow or exploring life with my 3 dogs. It’s a powerful way to deepen appreciation for the present.

Gratitude is a Skill Worth Building

Gratitude might not come naturally, but with consistent practice, it can become a cornerstone of emotional resilience and happiness. By journaling, expressing thanks to others, and practicing mental subtraction, you can train your brain to focus on the good—even amidst life’s challenges.

Gratitude isn’t just a feel-good emotion—it’s a powerful mental tool that rewires your brain for better health and happiness. Through neuroplasticity, gratitude practices such as journaling or simply expressing thanks, strengthen neural pathways linked to positive emotions and weaken those associated with stress or negativity. This results in reduced anxiety, lower cortisol (the stress hormone), and improved mood​​

But the benefits don’t stop at mental health. Gratitude is also linked to better heart health, stronger immune function, and improved sleep quality. By calming the nervous system, gratitude promotes relaxation and a sense of well-being. Plus, it enhances emotional intelligence, fostering empathy, compassion, and stronger social connections​

As Dr. Monica Johnson reminds us, gratitude is like a muscle: it grows stronger the more you use it. This Thanksgiving, and in the year ahead, let’s commit to cultivating gratitude as a daily habit. The rewards—a brighter perspective, deeper connections, and greater joy—are well worth the effort.

Gratitude isn’t about ignoring pain or hardship—it’s about recognizing the value in the journey. Whether you’re navigating personal struggles, cultural pressures, or simply a stressful holiday season, gratitude offers a way to stay curious, grounded, and resilient.

For more information on the 365 Easy Challenge for 2025, click here!

Which gratitude strategy will you try first? Let me know in the comments!

For a deeper exploration of the science of gratitude, you can check out these insightful resources:

Books:

  1. The Gratitude Diaries by Janice Kaplan – This book blends personal storytelling with scientific research on the power of gratitude in transforming daily life.
  2. Thanks! How the New Science of Gratitude Can Make You Happier by Robert Emmons – Emmons, one of the leading researchers in the field, explores the science behind gratitude and how practicing it can improve physical and mental health.
  3. The Happiness Advantage by Shawn Achor – Achor discusses how happiness, including gratitude, can lead to success in work and life by creating a positive mindset.

Studies and Articles:

  1. Gratitude and Well-being (Greater Good Science Center) – A collection of studies demonstrating that gratitude can improve overall well-being, reduce stress, and enhance relationships​Greater Good.
  2. A study published in Psychology of Well-Being found that practicing gratitude regularly can help reduce negative emotions and promote a greater sense of life satisfaction​Greater Good.

TED Talks:

  1. “The Power of Vulnerability” by Brené Brown – Brown explores how embracing vulnerability, along with gratitude, leads to a deeper connection with others and personal well-being.
  2. “What’s So Funny About Gratitude?” by Robyn Stratton-Berkessel – In this talk, Stratton-Berkessel discusses the profound impact that asking about positive experiences can have on fostering gratitude in everyday life​ PositivePsychology.com.
  3. “The Secret to Happiness is Helping Others” by Mike Robbins – Robbins highlights how gratitude, especially when expressed towards others, can create a ripple effect of kindness and well-being​PositivePsychology.com.

These resources provide a rich blend of personal, scientific, and practical perspectives on how gratitude can enhance our lives.

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The MLM Illusion: Selling a Dream or a Trap?

New Episode Alert: The Dark Side of MLMs and Coercive Control

🚨 This Week on Taste of Truth Tuesdays 🚨, we’re diving into the complex and manipulative world of multi-level marketing (MLM) companies—uncovering the coercive control tactics they use to keep people hooked. 🧠💸 MLMs don’t just sell products. They sell a dream—a dream of financial freedom, wealth, and unlimited success. The problem? That dream is often built on deceptive tactics that prey on vulnerability, foster magical thinking, and emotionally manipulate their members.

At first glance, MLMs seem like a golden opportunity. They promise wealth, freedom, and independence—targeting people who are seeking a way out of financial struggle or a traditional 9-to-5. But underneath those glittering promises are dangerous tactics that prey on human psychology, exploiting emotional weaknesses to create loyalty and blind devotion.

A key tactic MLMs use is magical thinking. This is the belief that positive thoughts and visualizations alone can bring success, wealth, or health. A 2019 study in Frontiers in Psychology revealed that many MLMs sell products—like supplements and essential oils—by making unverified claims about curing diseases, with little to no scientific evidence to back them up. 😳

Why Is Magical Thinking So Dangerous?

Magical thinking isn’t just harmless optimism. In the context of MLMs, it can lead people to make poor financial and health decisions. Here’s why it’s so dangerous:

🚫 False Sense of Control: Magical thinking tricks people into believing they can control outcomes simply by thinking positively. This false confidence can prevent them from taking real, actionable steps to improve their situation.

🚫 Health Risks: MLMs often push supplements and oils with promises of “miracle cures” for serious illnesses—without scientific validation. People may choose these products over actual medical treatments, putting their health in danger.

🚫 Emotional Manipulation: By convincing members that failure is due to their lack of belief or effort, MLMs shift the blame from the system to the individual. This creates a toxic cycle of guilt and shame, trapping people emotionally in the MLM.

Coercive Loyalty and Emotional Manipulation

Beyond magical thinking, MLMs use coercive control tactics to create a false sense of community and belonging. They foster an atmosphere of loyalty where members feel pressured to stay positive, constantly recruit new people, and never question the system.

💥 Coercive Loyalty: Members are often told that the reason they’re not successful is because they’re not trying hard enough, recruiting enough, or believing in themselves. This turns failure into a personal flaw, rather than a flaw in the business model.

💥 Community Pressure: MLMs thrive on social dynamics, where members are encouraged to pressure their friends and family into joining. This creates a network of dependency and makes it harder for people to leave, even when they start seeing the cracks in the system.

💥 Emotional Exploitation: Guilt, shame, and failure are powerful emotional tools used by MLMs. When people don’t succeed, they’re often made to feel as if they didn’t believe in the product or themselves enough. This emotional manipulation keeps members invested—financially, mentally, and emotionally—even when the odds are against them.

Breaking Free: Real Stories of Escaping MLMs

In this week’s episode, we also share real stories of individuals who have been trapped in MLMs and how they broke free. These stories highlight the emotional, financial, and mental toll that MLMs take on their members, and how difficult it can be to escape once you’re in the cycle. 😳

Why You Need to Listen

If you’ve ever been approached by someone pushing a “life-changing opportunity” or a “groundbreaking product,” this episode is for you. If you’ve been tempted to join an MLM—or know someone who has—this episode is essential listening. We’re unpacking the toxic blend of pseudoscience, community pressure, and emotional exploitation that keeps MLMs running, and sharing actionable tips on how to recognize the red flags before it’s too late. 🚩

Tune in to this week’s episode of Taste of Truth Tuesdays to learn how to protect yourself from the manipulative tactics of MLMs and avoid falling into their web of magical thinking and emotional control. Whether you’re considering joining an MLM or are currently involved, understanding these tactics is key to protecting your financial and emotional well-being.

🎧 Listen to the full episode now—

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Why MLMs Exploit Magical Thinking

Magical thinking is a quirky psychological phenomenon where people believe that their thoughts, wishes, or actions can directly influence real-world outcomes, despite defying logic or scientific fact. It’s the belief that if you wish for something hard enough, visualize it every day, or think positively, the universe will somehow bend to your will. Sounds empowering, right? But in reality, it leads to a lot of irrational beliefs and behaviors, particularly in high-pressure environments like multi-level marketing (MLM) schemes.

MLMs thrive on this kind of thinking, pushing slogans and practices that dangle the promise of success, wealth, and happiness in front of their members—all through nothing but the power of positive thinking and visualization. “Just think it, and it’ll happen!” But here’s the catch: it never really works like that.

Why Is Magical Thinking Dangerous?

1. False Sense of Control

Magical thinking feeds people this false sense of control over their lives and circumstances. It convinces them that all they need is positive vibes to attract success, which can lead to dangerous complacency. Instead of putting in the hard work, effort, and strategic thinking needed to succeed in any real business, MLM recruits often fall into a trap where they believe success will magically come to them. Spoiler alert: it won’t.

2. Financial Loss

MLMs are notorious for selling the idea that anyone can make it big if they just believe in themselves. It sounds inspiring, right? But it’s a trap. People are encouraged to pour their hard-earned money into products, recruitment materials, and endless training sessions without fully understanding the shaky foundation these businesses stand on. In reality, research shows that up to 99% of MLM participants lose money, but thanks to the allure of magical thinking, they keep going, convinced that their big break is just one more product purchase or recruit away.

3. Emotional Manipulation

MLMs are also masters of emotional manipulation. If you’re not succeeding, they’ll convince you that it’s not the business model that’s failing—it’s you. You didn’t think positively enough, you didn’t manifest hard enough, or you weren’t dedicated enough to your dreams. This emotional burden can leave individuals feeling guilty, ashamed, and like personal failures, even when the deck was stacked against them from the start. The cycle of shame continues as they compare themselves to the shiny success stories splashed all over social media.

4. Detachment from Reality

Magical thinking can lead to complete detachment from reality. When you’re convinced that positive thoughts are all you need, you can easily ignore the mounting red flags. People end up ignoring their dwindling bank accounts, fractured relationships, and mental exhaustion because they’re too busy trying to manifest success. And by the time they snap out of it, the damage is done.

Why Do MLMs Use Magical Thinking?

1. Reinforcement of Loyalty

MLMs aren’t just about selling products—they’re about creating a cult-like loyalty. By pushing magical thinking, they foster a tight-knit community of like-minded believers. This sense of belonging makes it incredibly difficult for individuals to walk away, even when the financial and emotional costs start piling up. After all, leaving the MLM means leaving the tribe—and who wants to be the one to break away?

2. Justification of Failure

When magical thinking is the foundation of your belief system, failure is never about the business model. It’s always personal. Didn’t make the millions you were promised? It’s because you didn’t believe enough. This mindset is a genius way for MLMs to deflect blame, keeping their own reputation intact while making their members feel like the problem lies with them. It keeps the business running without accountability.

3. Encouragement of Recruitment

MLMs thrive on recruitment, and magical thinking is the fuel for the machine. The idea that anyone can succeed if they just think positively or visualize their dreams is a powerful hook for drawing in new recruits. If everyone believes success is inevitable through mental willpower alone, they’ll keep signing up—and bringing others with them.

Red Flags to Watch Out For

• Slogans and Phrases

Be on the lookout for those overly-optimistic, saccharine catchphrases like, “Just believe and you’ll achieve!” or “Manifest your dreams, and they’ll come true!” These slogans might seem harmless at first, but they’re big red flags that magical thinking is being used to manipulate and keep people hooked.

• Focus on Personal Stories

MLMs love to highlight the few personal success stories where individuals “made it,” while conveniently sweeping the 99% of struggling participants under the rug. This selective storytelling distorts reality and feeds the illusion that success is within easy reach for everyone.

• Pressure to Stay Positive

If you feel constant pressure to only stay positive and avoid discussing any challenges or failures, that’s another major warning sign. MLMs don’t want anyone disrupting their “positive vibes” because questioning the business model threatens the entire operation.

• Ignoring Evidence

If an MLM is constantly dismissing scientific evidence or research in favor of anecdotal stories and positive affirmations, it’s time to raise an eyebrow. Facts and figures don’t lie—but magical thinking demands you ignore the hard truths in favor of feel-good fiction.

Conclusion

Magical thinking can feel seductive—after all, who doesn’t want to believe that simply thinking positively can change your life? But in the context of MLMs, it’s a dangerous trap that exploits emotions, manipulates reality, and can lead to significant financial and psychological harm.

Recognizing the power of magical thinking is a key step toward protecting yourself from falling prey to MLM schemes. The next time someone tries to sell you the dream with a hefty dose of “just believe,” remember: real success comes from strategy, effort, and critical thinking—not wishful thinking. Stay sharp, and always dig for the facts behind the hype.

If you’re looking to dig deeper into the topic of magical thinking, MLMs, and their psychological impacts, here are some top-notch resources that will give you the depth and insight needed to fully understand the scope of this issue:

1. Books

  • “Merchants of Deception” by Eric Scheibeler
    • A former high-ranking member of an MLM, Scheibeler exposes the dark side of the industry, shining a light on the manipulative tactics, including magical thinking, used to keep participants hooked and financially invested.
  • “Ponzinomics: The Untold Story of Multi-Level Marketing” by Robert FitzPatrick
    • FitzPatrick’s book is one of the most thorough resources available on MLMs, dissecting the psychological manipulation that fosters the illusion of success, including how magical thinking plays a role in perpetuating these business models.
  • “Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion” by Robert B. Cialdini
    • While not specifically about MLMs, this classic book on persuasion provides a solid foundation for understanding the psychological tactics used in MLMs, including magical thinking. The book covers how people are influenced by emotional appeals and irrational thinking in decision-making.
  • “The Confidence Game: Why We Fall for It… Every Time” by Maria Konnikova
    • This book dives into why people fall for scams, cons, and magical thinking, explaining the psychological elements at play, such as the desire for control and emotional manipulation—key tactics used by MLMs.

2. Podcasts

  • “The Dream”
    • This investigative podcast explores the world of MLMs, breaking down the psychological manipulation, emotional appeals, and magical thinking used to recruit and retain participants. The show offers interviews and personal stories, exposing the inner workings of MLMs in a captivating and digestible format.
  • “MLM: The Broke Podcast”
    • Hosted by a former MLM member, this podcast uncovers how MLMs operate and the manipulative strategies they employ. The podcast touches on magical thinking and the emotional manipulation that keeps participants in these schemes.

3. Academic Articles & Research Papers

  • “Magical Thinking and Superstitions: How Beliefs and Cognitive Biases Drive Irrational Behavior” – by Michael Shermer
    • This article explores the psychological underpinnings of magical thinking and how it relates to belief systems. Shermer’s work is helpful for understanding the cognitive biases MLMs exploit.
  • “The Dark Side of Positive Thinking” by Gabriele Oettingen (Psychological Science)
    • Oettingen’s research critically examines the idea that positive thinking, often promoted in MLMs, can lead to worse outcomes when people fail to back it up with realistic planning and action, a key aspect of magical thinking.
  • “The Fantasy of Success: MLMs and the Psychology of Unrealistic Optimism” by Kim Korteweg (Journal of Business Ethics)
    • This study looks at the role of unrealistic optimism and magical thinking in MLM recruitment and retention, providing a scholarly perspective on how these psychological tricks keep participants engaged.

4. Documentaries & Films

  • “Betting on Zero” (2016)
    • This documentary follows hedge fund manager Bill Ackman’s quest to expose Herbalife as a pyramid scheme. It highlights how MLMs, including Herbalife, use magical thinking to maintain their recruitment and selling operations, and the devastating impact it has on participants.
  • “LuluRich” (2021)
    • A documentary series about the rise and fall of LuLaRoe, this film touches on the magical thinking that drove people to invest thousands into the company based on promises of riches and financial freedom. It dives into the personal stories of those who fell victim to the MLM’s tactics.

5. Articles and Blogs

  • “MLMs Use Magical Thinking to Sell Dreams” (The Atlantic)
    • This article delves into the connection between magical thinking and MLM success, explaining how the industry’s use of vision boards, affirmations, and other positive-thinking tactics lure people into believing they can manifest wealth.
  • “Why People Keep Falling for MLM Scams” by Amanda Montell (Cosmopolitan)
    • Montell breaks down the psychological manipulation MLMs use, including magical thinking, and how they tap into emotional vulnerabilities, especially for women seeking financial independence or a sense of community.
  • “Multi-Level Marketing and the Cult of Magical Thinking” (Psychology Today)
    • This blog post by a psychologist explores the mental traps of magical thinking, including how MLMs leverage these tactics to keep people hooked, even when they’re losing money.

6. Research Studies & Psychology Databases

  • American Psychological Association (APA)
    • The APA has various articles and studies on cognitive distortions, belief systems, and the psychology behind magical thinking, which are key to understanding how MLMs manipulate thought patterns.
  • PubMed/NIH Studies
    • If you’re looking for peer-reviewed research, searching PubMed for articles on cognitive biases, emotional manipulation, and the psychology of MLMs can provide high-quality, evidence-based insights.

These resources will give you a comprehensive understanding of how magical thinking, emotional manipulation, and psychological tricks are intertwined with MLM schemes. Whether you’re writing, podcasting, or just seeking to educate yourself, these tools will sharpen your perspective on the dangers of MLMs and the allure of magical thinking.