From Heart to Brain: The Neuroscience Behind Connection and Calm
Welcome back to Taste of Truth Tuesdays, where we maintain our curiosity, embrace skepticism, and never stop asking what’s really going on beneath the surface. Last week, I prepared you for this episode, so if you missed out, please check it out! It’s short and sweet.
Why does your body feel like it’s on high alert… even when nothing “bad” is happening? Why do you either trust too quickly or not at all and end up anxious, burned out, and ashamed? Why is it so damn hard to regulate your emotions, especially when you’re great at controlling everything else?
If those questions hit a little too close to home… this episode is for you.
Last season, we dove deep into complex trauma through Pete Walker’s From Surviving to Thriving, unpacking how childhood neglect, emotional abuse, and developmental trauma shape adult patterns.
And today? We’re going even deeper — through the lens of neuroscience.
Because what if these aren’t personality quirks or moral failings? What if your brain and body are actually doing their best to protect you, using adaptations wired by Complex PTSD?
My guest today is Cody Isabel | Neuroscience, a neuroscience researcher and writer whose work has become a game-changer in trauma conversations. He holds a degree in Cognitive Behavioral Neuroscience, has training in Internal Family Systems psychotherapy, and specializes in the emerging field of Psychoneuroimmunology — the study of how your thoughts, brain, and immune system interact.
We’ve talked about fawning, the lesser-known trauma response that shows up as chronic people-pleasing, self-abandonment, and conflict avoidance—especially common in those who’ve survived high-control environments. In this episode with Theresa, we also explore the stress cycle. According to Selye’s General Adaptation Syndrome, your body moves through three stages when facing ongoing stress: Alarm, Resistance, and eventually, Exhaustion. And fawning, while behavioral, can easily become your nervous system’s go-to tactic—especially during prolonged stress or in the presence of power dynamics that feel threatening.
We have talked about the Emotional Hijack and how trauma impacts the brain in this episode.
We’ve also referenced the vagus nerve, but not specifically Polyvagal Theory—but today, we’re going deeper. Instead of seeing your stress responses as “malfunctions,” it reframes them as adaptive survival strategies. Your nervous system isn’t betraying you—it’s trying to protect you. It’s just working off old wiring.
Think of it like this:
Your nervous system is constantly scanning for cues of safety or threat—this is called neuroception. And based on what it detects, your body shifts into different states—each with a biological purpose.
The Polyvagal Chart breaks this down into three major states:
1. 🟢 Ventral Vagal – Social Engagement (Safety)
This is your “rest-and-connect” zone. You feel grounded, calm, curious, and open. You can be present with yourself and with others. Your body prioritizes digestion, immune function, and bonding hormones like oxytocin. You’re regulated.
This is the state we’re meant to live in most of the time—but trauma, chronic stress, or inconsistent caregiving can knock us out of it.
2. 🟡 Sympathetic – Fight or Flight (Danger)
When your system detects danger, it flips into high alert. Blood rushes to your limbs, your heart races, your digestion shuts down. You either fight (rage, irritation) or flee (anxiety, panic). This is survival mode. It’s not rational—it’s reactive.
And if that still doesn’t resolve the threat?
3. 🔴 Dorsal Vagal – Freeze (Life Threat)
This is the deepest shutdown. Your system says: “This is too much. I can’t.” You go numb. You collapse. You may dissociate, feel hopeless, or emotionally flatline. It’s not weakness—it’s your nervous system pulling the emergency brake to conserve energy and protect you.
Here’s what’s crucial to understand: these responses aren’t choices. They’re biological defaults. And many of us are stuck in loops of fight, flight, or freeze because our systems never got a chance to complete the stress cycle and return to safety.
So instead of shaming yourself for overreacting or shutting down, what if you asked:
“What is my nervous system trying to do for me right now?” “What does it need to feel safe again?”
That shift—from judgment to curiosity—is the beginning of healing.
And we’ll connect this to another major thread—attachment systems, which we haven’t unpacked in depth yet, but absolutely need to.
Your attachment system is the biological and psychological mechanism that drives you to seek safety, closeness, and emotional connection—especially when you’re under stress. It develops in early childhood through repeated interactions with your caregivers, shaping how you regulate your emotions, perceive threats, and relate to others. If those caregivers were emotionally attuned, predictable, and responsive, you likely formed a secure attachment. But if they were inconsistent, neglectful, controlling, or chaotic… your attachment system learned to adapt in ways that may have kept you safe then—but cost you connection now.
In The Happiness Hypothesis, Jonathan Haidt points to a disturbing moment in psychological history that disrupted the natural development of secure attachment: the rise of behaviorism in the early 20th century.
John B. Watson, a founding figure of behaviorism, famously applied the same rigid, mechanistic principles he used on rats to raising human children. In his 1928 bestseller The Psychological Care of Infant and Child, he urged parents not to kiss their children, not to comfort them when they cried, and to withhold affection—believing emotional bonding would produce weak, dependent adults.
By the mid-20th century, attachment theory began to challenge these behaviorist claims. John Bowlby, in the 1950s, argued that infants form emotional bonds with caregivers as an innate survival mechanism—not merely as conditioned responses to rewards, as behaviorism suggested. His work, drawing from ethology, psychoanalysis, and control systems theory, moved beyond behaviorism’s narrow stimulus-response framework. Mary Ainsworth’s empirical research in the 1960s and ’70s, through her Strange Situation study, confirmed that attachment styles stem from caregiver sensitivity and infant security needs, rather than simple conditioning.
Yet, ironically, during the 1970s and ’80s, Christian parenting teachings—particularly those popularized by figures like Dobson—adopted and amplified the very behaviorist ideas that attachment research was already disproving. These teachings emphasized strict discipline and emotional control, often citing Scripture to justify practices rooted in outdated psychological theories rather than theology.
Let that sink in.
For decades, dominant parenting advice discouraged emotional responsiveness, treating affection not as a necessity but as a liability.
This wasn’t just bad advice—it was the psychological equivalent of nutritional starvation. Instead of missing vitamins, children missed attunement, safety, and connection. As attachment research has since shown, those early emotional experiences shape nervous system development, stress regulation, and whether someone grows up trusting or fearing closeness.
So, when we talk about stress responses like fawning… or chronic over-functioning… or emotional dysregulation… we’re often seeing the adult expression of a nervous system that never learned what safety feels like in the presence of other people.
And that’s why today’s conversation matters. Because healing isn’t just about rewiring thought patterns. It’s about rebuilding your felt sense of safety—in your body, in your relationships, and in your life.
And if you are anything like me and have found yourself wondering… why your nervous system reacts the way it does… or why regulating your emotions feels impossible even when you “know better” … this episode will connect the dots in ways that are both validating and eye-opening.
We’re talking trauma, identity, neuroplasticity, stress, survival, and what it really means to come home to yourself.
The topics we explore:
The critical differences between PTSD and Complex PTSD — and how each impacts the brain and body
Why CPTSD isn’t just a fear response, but a full-body survival adaptation that reshapes your identity
What it means to heal “from the bottom up,” and why insight alone isn’t enough
How books and language can validate our experience — without replacing the need for somatic work
The push-pull of relational safety: why CPTSD makes connection feel risky, even when we crave it
How trauma affects the Default Mode Network, and why healing often feels like rediscovering who you are
Whether you’re navigating relational triggers, spiritual disorientation, or the long road of recovery, this conversation offers clarity, compassion, and a grounded path forward.
If you had asked me a year ago why my body hurt so much—why my hips ached, my calves tightened with every step, or why even walking on the treadmill felt like a chore—I would have said it was from overtraining or poor posture. What I couldn’t articulate then was that my pain wasn’t just physical. It was a complex dance involving my nervous system, my fascia, and my body’s attempt to protect itself after years of unresolved trauma.
Our nervous system plays a fundamental role in chronic pain. When we experience physical or emotional trauma, our body reacts by creating a heightened state of alertness. Over time, these experiences are encoded in the nervous system as neurotags—clusters of physical, emotional, and cognitive memories that influence how we react to stress and pain. Chronic pain, I’ve learned, is often an echo of this activation. It’s not just about tight muscles or structural imbalances—it’s a survival mechanism trying to make sense of and respond to past trauma.
This is the story of how I’ve started to untangle it all, and how chronic pain, emotional wounds, and trauma are all intricately tied together in ways I never imagined.
The Connection Between Chronic Pain and Trauma
For years, I treated my body like a machine. During my bodybuilding days, I pushed through discomfort, ignored signs of overtraining, and celebrated soreness as a badge of honor. But what I didn’t understand then was how my nervous system was quietly keeping score.
Chronic pain, I’ve learned, isn’t just about tight muscles or structural imbalances—it’s a survival strategy. When we experience trauma, whether from overtraining, stress, or emotional wounds, our nervous system can get stuck in a heightened state of alertness. It’s like a smoke alarm that keeps going off, long after the fire has been extinguished.
Fascia, the connective tissue that surrounds every muscle and organ in our body, plays a fascinating role in this process. Fascia isn’t just structural—it’s sensory. It’s packed with nerve endings that communicate directly with the brain. When the body perceives danger (even subconsciously), the fascia can tighten, creating patterns of tension that mirror emotional or physical trauma. In my case, that tension showed up in my psoas muscles, my calves, and my lower back—all areas associated with safety and movement.
The more I explored these connections, the more I began to see that pain wasn’t random—it was a message from my body. And it was asking me to listen.
The Power of Neurotags: How Pain and Trauma Intersect
One of the most eye-opening concepts I’ve come across in my journey is the idea of neurotags—a term used to describe the brain’s way of organizing and processing sensory, emotional, and cognitive information. Neurotags are like maps of experiences that are built over time, creating an interconnected network of physical sensations, emotions, and thoughts that work together to form a response to stimuli.
Here’s the kicker: Chronic pain is often stored in these neurotags. When trauma occurs—whether physical, emotional, or psychological—it gets encoded in the nervous system as a pattern. These patterns are not just about the physical experience of pain, but also the emotions and thoughts tied to that experience.
When trauma is stored in the nervous system, it doesn’t just affect how we feel physically; it affects our entire emotional and cognitive landscape. For example, someone who has experienced physical trauma may also experience emotional flashbacks or cognitive distortions that are linked to that experience. These flashbacks are like sudden replays of past trauma, but they don’t just exist in the mind—they can show up physically in the body.
Neurotags, Emotional Flashbacks, and Chronic Pain
Think about it this way: When we experience a traumatic event, our nervous system reacts by encoding that event into a neurotag. This neurotag includes not only the physical sensations (like tightness, pain, or discomfort), but also the emotions (fear, anger, sadness) and cognitive patterns (thoughts like “I am unsafe” or “I am weak”).
Emotional flashbacks happen when the brain reactivates these neurotags, causing the body to respond as if the trauma is happening again. This is why someone with chronic pain may experience intense emotions that seem disproportionate to the physical sensations they’re feeling. The pain can trigger a flashback—a sudden, overwhelming re-experience of trauma that isn’t just mental but is felt deeply in the body.
In my case, the tension I experienced in my hips and lower back was a reflection of both the physical trauma of overtraining and the emotional trauma I had internalized from years of pushing myself too hard and ignoring my body’s signals. When my nervous system encountered stress, it activated these neurotags, making the tension and pain feel more intense and more pervasive. The more I resisted this pain or ignored the emotional connection to it, the worse it became.
How I’m Healing: Creating New Neurotags and Engaging the Vagus Nerve
Understanding neurotags has been revolutionary in how I approach my healing process. The key to healing, I’ve learned, is not simply “fixing” the physical pain but reprogramming the neurotags. This involves creating new patterns that support healing, safety, and relaxation.
One powerful way I’m rewiring my nervous system is by engaging the vagus nerve, the longest cranial nerve that plays a critical role in regulating the parasympathetic nervous system. The vagus nerve is like the body’s “brakes,” helping to turn off the fight-or-flight response and return the body to a state of calm. When activated, it encourages relaxation, emotional regulation, and recovery—exactly what my body needs as I untangle the tension stored in my fascia and nervous system.
Here’s how I’m starting to rewire my system:
Reconnecting with Joyful Movement: I’ve reintroduced activities that make me feel alive, like walking in the garden or playing with my pets. These moments remind me that movement isn’t just about strength—it’s about freedom. By incorporating joyful, non-stressful activities, I’m helping to reinforce new neurotags that associate movement with pleasure and ease.
Reclaiming Safety Through Movement: Instead of high-intensity workouts, I’ve shifted to gentle, functional exercises that strengthen my core and glutes while supporting my nervous system. Slow, mindful movements like glute bridges, bird dogs, and pelvic tilts have become my new best friends. These exercises not only build strength but signal to my nervous system that it’s safe to move.
Releasing Fascia with Love: I’ve embraced somatic practices like gentle rocking, diaphragmatic breathing, and fascia-focused stretches to help release tension. These practices aren’t just physical—they’re a way of telling my body, “You’re safe now.” They help reprogram the neurotags associated with stress and trauma by sending a message of relaxation and calm.
Vagus Nerve Activation: To support my nervous system’s recovery, I’ve incorporated practices that stimulate the vagus nerve, such as slow, deep belly breathing and humming. Breathing deeply into my diaphragm (focusing on long exhales) has been especially helpful in calming my body and signaling to my nervous system that it’s okay to relax. By consciously engaging my vagus nerve, I’m helping shift from the fight-or-flight response into a restorative state.
Rewriting Emotional Patterns: Rewiring my nervous system also means rewriting my emotional patterns. This involves acknowledging the emotional flashbacks that arise when pain triggers old neurotags and consciously choosing to respond with compassion and self-care. Instead of reacting with fear or frustration, I’m learning to pause, breathe, and remind myself that I’m safe now.
What Chronic Pain Has Taught Me
Chronic pain has been a tough teacher, but it’s taught me lessons I wouldn’t trade for anything:
Your body is always on your side. Pain is a signal, not a punishment.
Healing isn’t linear. Some days, progress looks like resting instead of pushing.
Movement is medicine, but only when done with intention and love.
I share this journey because I know I’m not alone. So many of us carry the weight of trauma—both emotional and physical—in our bodies. And while the road to healing isn’t easy, it’s worth it.
If you’re navigating chronic pain, I want you to know this: Your body isn’t broken, and you don’t have to fight it. With the right tools, patience, and self-compassion, you can create safety, release tension, and rediscover the joy of movement.
I’m still on this journey, and I’d love to hear about yours. What has chronic pain taught you? How are you learning to trust your body again? Let’s keep this conversation going—because healing happens when we feel safe enough to share.
Let’s talk about stress, baby! The holiday season is here, and so is the pressure—family obligations, shopping, cooking, and don’t even get me started on the aftermath of an election year. It feels like stress is at an all-time high, right? But guess what? It doesn’t have to wreck your health goals or derail your progress in 2025.
Forget extreme diets, gimmicky regimens, and complicated rules. In 2025, we’re mastering the basics and building a lifestyle that lasts. The key to handling the chaos of life, including holiday stress and beyond, is learning how to manage it effectively. That’s where stress management fits into the 365 Easy Challenge—your simple, sustainable plan for the new year.
Stress is the silent killer of self-control and health. It doesn’t just disrupt your mind—it messes with your body, too. And when stress builds up, it pulls your energy away from what matters most: your health, your relationships, and your goals. That’s why stress management isn’t just about “chill vibes”—it’s about learning to recognize, manage, and even reframe how we handle stress.
2025 is the year we crush the basics—here’s how to make stress a manageable part of your journey, not a roadblock.
What Is Stress, Really?
Stress is your body’s natural response to change. Whether it’s positive (like getting married or landing a new job) or negative (like losing a loved one or dealing with financial pressure), your body reacts in a similar way. Your nervous system goes into high gear, releasing hormones like adrenaline and cortisol to help you react to the situation.
At a basic level, stress is a mechanism for survival—your body prepares to fight or flee from danger. But in today’s world, the “danger” is more likely to be a heavy workload, relationship problems, or feeling overwhelmed by societal issues. It’s no longer a saber-toothed tiger lurking around the corner, but your body responds with the same intense, sometimes overwhelming, force.
The Stress Response: Fight or Flight, or Freeze?
When stress triggers your fight-or-flight system, your body shifts into survival mode. This state is designed for short bursts of energy—like running away from danger or facing an immediate threat. However, in today’s world, this system is often activated for prolonged periods, even when the “danger” isn’t physical but emotional or mental.
This prolonged state of stress can lead to:
Chronic inflammation: Your immune system is on constant alert, which can cause inflammation in your body. Over time, chronic inflammation is linked to conditions like heart disease, diabetes, and autoimmune disorders.
Cortisol imbalances: Cortisol is your body’s primary stress hormone. It’s helpful in small amounts, but if cortisol levels stay elevated for too long, it can affect your metabolism, immune function, and even your mood.
Digestive issues: Chronic stress slows down digestion, leading to issues like bloating, indigestion, and constipation. Your body diverts energy away from digestion to focus on “surviving,” which means your gut doesn’t get the attention it needs. Check out this post for more!
Sleep disturbances: Stress can interfere with your sleep cycle, either by making it difficult to fall asleep or by causing you to wake up in the middle of the night. Inadequate sleep further exacerbates stress, creating a vicious cycle.
We dive deep into the cycles of stress and their impact on the body here–>Unraveling the Impact of Stress on Chronic Health with Theresa Piela-In this powerful episode, I sit down with holistic healing expert Theresa Piela to explore the deep connection between chronic stress and health.
The Chronic Stress Cascade: How Your Body Reacts Over Time
When stress becomes chronic, your body begins to break down. This is where it gets tricky. Initially, stress is adaptive—it helps you meet deadlines, take care of important matters, or perform in high-stakes situations. But when stress persists without relief, your body’s systems start to degrade. Here’s what can happen over time:
The Brain’s Reaction: Your brain uses a part called the hypothalamus to detect stress. The hypothalamus signals the pituitary gland to release ACTH (adrenocorticotropic hormone), which triggers the adrenal glands to produce cortisol. This is your body’s way of priming itself for action. But when cortisol levels remain elevated, it can impair cognitive function, causing issues with memory, focus, and decision-making.
Metabolic and Hormonal Disruptions: Prolonged stress can disrupt your body’s metabolic rate and hormonal balance. Elevated cortisol levels encourage your body to store fat, particularly around the abdominal area, leading to weight gain. It also suppresses the production of thyroid hormones, slowing down your metabolism and making it harder to lose weight.
Impact on Digestion: Under stress, the digestive system gets “shut down” as blood is redirected to muscles and the brain. This leads to slower digestion, poor nutrient absorption, and can worsen symptoms like bloating, constipation, or acid reflux. Over time, these digestive issues can lead to more serious conditions like irritable bowel syndrome (IBS) or leaky gut syndrome.
Sleep and Recovery: The relationship between stress and sleep is a two-way street. High cortisol levels can make it difficult to fall asleep, and poor sleep further heightens stress. Sleep is a critical time for recovery and repair, and without it, your body cannot recover from the physical or mental toll of stress.
Stress Triggers: What’s Really Affecting You?
Now that we understand how stress works, let’s take a deeper look at the factors that are increasing your stress levels. In today’s fast-paced world, many of us are chronically stressed without even realizing it. Some of the most common stress triggers include:
Work: The pressure to perform, meet deadlines, and juggle multiple tasks can create a constant state of stress. Add in the current economic uncertainty, and the pressure can skyrocket.
Family and Social Expectations: From holiday gatherings to social media pressures, the weight of fulfilling expectations can cause significant stress. Feeling obligated to meet everyone’s needs can drain your mental and emotional reserves.
Politics and Global Events: In an election year, especially with heightened tensions and divided opinions, political issues can contribute to a constant feeling of unease and anxiety.
Financial Strain: Worrying about money, whether it’s paying bills, managing debt, or planning for the future, is a significant stressor for many people.
Managing Stress: Key Educational Insights for a Healthier Life
While stress is inevitable, there are clear strategies you can adopt to keep it from sabotaging your health. Let’s break down effective stress management into actionable steps.
1. Reframe Your Perception of Stress
Research shows that how you perceive stress matters. When you view stress as something that harms you, your body responds in a negative way. However, when you view stress as a challenge—something to overcome—it actually helps improve your body’s response. It’s not about eliminating stress, but rather about adjusting your mindset.
2. Practice Mindful Stress Reduction
Mindfulness techniques, such as meditation, deep breathing, or progressive muscle relaxation, can help lower your stress levels by activating your parasympathetic nervous system. This is the “rest and digest” system, which counters the “fight or flight” response. Even just 5–10 minutes a day can significantly lower your stress levels.
3. Physical Activity as a Stress Reliever
Exercise is one of the best ways to manage stress. When you engage in physical activity, your body releases endorphins—those “feel-good” chemicals that elevate mood and decrease stress. It doesn’t have to be an intense workout; even a walk, yoga session, or light stretching can help.
4. Nutrition and Hydration: Fueling Your Stress Management
Adequate nutrition and hydration are crucial for your body to handle stress. Dehydration can make you feel more stressed, and poor nutrition can exacerbate your body’s physical stress responses. Eating a balanced diet, with plenty of protein, healthy fats, and fiber, helps maintain stable blood sugar levels and keeps your hormones balanced.
5. Sleep Hygiene: Prioritize Rest
As mentioned earlier, sleep is foundational to stress management. Without quality sleep, your body doesn’t have the opportunity to repair itself. Implementing good sleep hygiene practices—such as avoiding blue light before bed, keeping a regular sleep schedule, and creating a restful environment—will help you get the restorative rest you need.
Conclusion: Stress is Manageable, Not Inevitable
The bottom line is that stress doesn’t have to control your life. By understanding the science behind it, recognizing your triggers, and taking proactive steps to manage it, you can reduce its harmful impact on your health.
As you embark on the 365 Easy Challenge for 2025, managing stress is one of the foundational steps toward living a balanced, sustainable life. Focus on building resilience and consistency, and remember: stress is a challenge you can conquer, not something to fear.
By addressing stress and its impact head-on, you’ll create a lifestyle that nurtures your health, happiness, and long-term success.
Stay calm, stay consistent, and take control of your stress in 2025. You’ve got this! 💪✨
Check out previous blog posts or podcast episodes for more insights on stress!
Forget extreme diets, gimmicky regimens, and complicated rules. 2025 is the year we master the basics and build a lifestyle that actually lasts. All you need? A simple plan, a sprinkle of consistency, and a whole lotta patience. Here are the 6 core habits you’ll need to crush 2025:
1. Brain Reframe 🧠 Your body doesn’t need a “reset” — your brain does! Shift the focus to what you’re adding, not subtracting. More protein, more fruits & veggies, more movement. It’s all about progress, not perfection.
2. Stress Management (and your mindset around stress) 😤 Stress is the silent killer of self-control and health. Managing stress isn’t just about chill vibes, it’s about understanding your stress and handling it like the boss you are.
3. Sleep Consistently 😴 The most underrated (yet most important) aspect of health? SLEEP. If you’re aiming for aesthetic goals, consistent sleep should be at the top of your priority list.
4. Digestive Health 🥦 Your body doesn’t thrive off what you eat, but off what you can digest and absorb. So, let’s get those healthy poops on track and optimize your digestion for real transformation.
5. Adequate Nutrition 🍏 Under-eating doesn’t get you anywhere good. Let’s focus on fueling your metabolism, building muscle, and living your life — so when the time comes for fat loss, it’s smoother and healthier than ever.
6. Gratitude Practice 🙏 Meditation, prayer, and focusing on gratitude are more than just buzzwords. Science shows they can actually help you stay on track with your diet and exercise goals. Yes, really!
Before you can make any changes, you’ve got to know what needs changing. You can’t improve what you don’t know needs improvement. Motivation? It’s a tricky beast. And we’ll talk more about that in an upcoming podcast episode (stay tuned!) where we’ll get into intrinsic vs. extrinsic motivation and why neither is enough on its own.
But here’s the TL;DR: Motivation is a lot like a campfire. You have to keep stoking the fire to keep it burning. Don’t wait for external motivation to light you up — take control!
The REAL Problem: Unrealistic Goals 🚫
Challenges like 75 Hard or Whole 30 aren’t the issue. It’s the unrealistic expectations that trip us up. Discipline isn’t about being lazy; it’s about setting goals that actually fit your life and personality. Instead of following what others are doing, ask yourself: What do I need?
Let’s be real: consistency and routine are the game-changers. They build habits, and habits lead to long-lasting results. So let’s ditch the all-or-nothing mentality and start building a routine that works for YOU.
Let’s be clear: Motivation is unreliable. We need to normalize the idea that motivation doesn’t last forever. The secret is: keep the fire alive and keep working on your goals, even when motivation flickers.
As a personal trainer, I’d tailor every plan to fit each person’s season of life — newly married, starting a new job, planning for a baby — because that’s how real results happen. It’s about what works for YOU.
So, let’s leave the restrictive diets and quick fixes behind and focus on mastering the basics for 2025. Who’s in?
Ready to start your journey? Let’s get it, 365 Easy Challenge style! 🔥
When clients come to me saying they have a “slow metabolism” or a “broken” metabolism, often they think they need to eat even less or cut carbs to jumpstart weight loss. But let me flip the script: in many cases, it’s actually chronic under-eating and restrictive dieting that’s slowing down their metabolism. Chronic dieting, especially with very low calories, can lead to impaired thyroid function and ultimately disrupt how the body uses energy. Here’s how it happens and what you can do to restore balance.
What is the Thyroid and Why Does It Matter?
Your thyroid is a small gland in your neck that plays a massive role in regulating your body’s metabolism. Often called the “controller” of metabolic function, the thyroid works closely with the hypothalamus and pituitary glands in the brain to maintain your metabolic rate. This system allows your body to increase or decrease energy production based on its needs, influencing everything from how you process food to your body temperature.
The thyroid primarily produces two hormones:
T3 (Triiodothyronine) – the active hormone that your cells use.
T4 (Thyroxine) – the inactive hormone that must be converted into T3 before your body can use it.
The production and conversion of these hormones depend on a feedback loop that begins with TSH (Thyroid Stimulating Hormone), which signals the thyroid to produce and release T4. But when the body is stressed—especially due to chronic under-eating or extreme calorie restriction—this whole process can become disrupted.
How Chronic Dieting Wrecks Your Thyroid
Under-eating is a significant source of stress for the body. Dieting or calorie restriction triggers the HPA axis (Hypothalamic-Pituitary-Adrenal axis), leading to an increase in CRH (Corticotropin-Releasing Hormone) and cortisol, our primary stress hormone. High cortisol levels can interfere with thyroid function in the following ways:
Reduces TSH Production: Elevated cortisol inhibits TSH, lowering T4 production and decreasing the amount of thyroid hormone available for energy use.
Impairs T4-to-T3 Conversion: Chronic stress slows down the conversion of T4 (inactive) into T3 (active), reducing your body’s energy production.
Increases rT3 Levels: Instead of converting into T3, some T4 becomes reverse T3 (rT3), a hormone that blocks T3 from being used. This, in turn, reduces the sensitivity of your cells to thyroid hormones, further lowering metabolic function.
This is why individuals who chronically under-eat or yo-yo diet often experience symptoms of hypothyroidism, even without an official diagnosis.
Symptoms of Suboptimal Thyroid Function
If your thyroid isn’t functioning optimally, you may notice some of the following symptoms:
Low body temperature (below 97.8°F)
Frequent feelings of cold, regardless of weather
Low or no libido
Anxiety, brain fog, or poor memory
Unexplained weight gain or difficulty losing weight
Bloating, poor digestion
Changes in hair texture or hair loss
Many clients experiencing these symptoms have been stuck in a calorie-deficit mindset for years, keeping their bodies in a constant state of stress. As a result, they’re often dealing with adrenal dysfunction, hypothyroidism, or even reproductive health issues, like extreme PMS, cycle loss, or low testosterone.
Restoring Your Thyroid Health—The First Steps
To begin improving thyroid health, our initial goal is to support both psychological and physiological balance, moving away from restrictive dieting and focusing on nourishment. Here’s a breakdown of the steps:
Stabilize Blood Sugar: Balanced blood sugar supports thyroid health and reduces stress on the body.
Maximize Nutrient Density: Prioritize whole, nutrient-rich foods to ensure your body receives adequate vitamins and minerals, especially selenium, zinc, and iodine, which are crucial for thyroid function.
Reduce Inflammation: Chronic inflammation can further stress the thyroid. Anti-inflammatory foods and lifestyle practices can help.
Incorporate Breathwork: Simple breathwork techniques can stimulate the vagus nerve, helping to regulate the HPA axis and reduce stress.
Avoid Dietary Triggers: Reduce foods that promote “leaky gut,” such as highly processed foods, sugar, and gluten, if sensitive. This protects your immune and thyroid health.
Manage Stress Proactively: Yoga, meditation, journaling, or spending time in nature can help keep cortisol in check.
Reduce Toxins and Pollutants: Environmental toxins can interfere with hormone health, so minimizing exposure can be a powerful step.
Prioritize Rest and Sleep: Quality sleep allows the body to recover and reset, which is essential for thyroid health.
The Bottom Line
Restrictive dieting isn’t the solution to a slow metabolism; it’s often the root cause. Chronic under-eating can lead to imbalances in your thyroid and adrenal glands, ultimately slowing down your metabolic rate and making it harder to achieve your fitness goals. Rebuilding a balanced, nourished body will not only help you feel better but will also lay the foundation for sustainable health.
This week, we’re talking all things thyroid health, and this post breaks down why breaking free from the dietary dogma of diet culture is crucial! Ever feel like your energy’s tanked, your minds in a fog, or your metabolism’s stuck in slow motion? 🧠✨ You’re not alone, and it could be your thyroid talking.
On this week’s Taste of Truth Tuesdays, we’re joined by Nicole, a holistic health advocate who’s here to shed light on how diet culture’s obsession with restriction can wreak havoc on your thyroid. From her own experience facing an autoimmune diagnosis to her advocacy for individualized nutrition, Nicole breaks down how restrictive dieting not only slows your metabolism but also impacts hormone balance, brain clarity, and overall well-being. Join us to learn how making friends with food (yes, even carbs!) might be the best way to support your thyroid and reclaim your energy.
Feeling stressed? 😩 Chronic stress can drain your energy, disrupt your sleep, and even increase the risk of serious health issues like cancer. This week on the podcast, we are diving deep into how stress impacts your body—and sharing real tips to fight back! 👊🏼 💥
In this powerful episode, I sit down with holistic healing expert Theresa Piela, @livingrootswellness to explore the deep connection between chronic stress and health. Theresa shares her personal story of hitting rock bottom in 2019, when chronic illness nearly led to organ failure. We dive into the guilt and exhaustion that comes with being chronically ill in a toxic world, and how healing techniques like Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) tapping can offer relief. 🌱✨
The Impact of Stress on the Body
Understanding Stress:Theresa breaks down the three stages of stress and how they manifest in our daily lives, leading to digestive issues and chronic illnesses. She sheds light on the silent havoc that prolonged stress wreaks on our gut health and overall bodily functions. Please review our earlier blog for more details!
Fuel & Nutrition: Supporting Your Body’s Adaptive Stress Response
Just as important as shifting your mindset is fueling your body with the right nutrients. A starved or inflamed system will struggle to adapt to stress, especially when trying to balance internal chaos. Proper nutrition is key to supporting the body’s stress response.
When the body isn’t fueled properly, persistent stress leads to harmful effects, such as blood sugar swings, hormonal dysregulation, and weakened immunity. To counteract this, we need to provide the body with the building blocks it needs to recover.
Here’s a high-level look at what your body requires for optimal function:
Proteins: Anti-inflammatory sources like grass-fed beef, broths, shellfish, and dairy.
Carbohydrates: Glucose and fructose from fruits, honey, maple syrup, and root vegetables.
Fats: Saturated fats are essential.
Vitamins & Minerals: Vitamin C, D, E, B1, B6, B12, calcium, magnesium, copper, sodium, potassium, selenium, and zinc.
I wanted to expand a BIT MORE on nutritional tips we may or may not have mentioned in this week’s discussion that are for sure helpful along your healing journey!
1️⃣Adrenal Elixirs-It’s a combination of sodium, potassium, and vitamin C—a perfect blend for your adrenals. Click here for recipes!
2️⃣Magnesium: During stressful times, your body burns through magnesium faster! Supplementing orally and using topical magnesium is helpful all the time, & increasing during times of stress can avoid future deficiency. Click here for a guide to Magnesium supplements!
3️⃣Boosting mineral-rich foods: Coconut water-rich in potassium. Potatoes, squash, fruit—also rich in potassium, Brewer’s yeast-rich in potassium, B vitamins, and many more nutrients (if you can handle the taste!) Cacao powder-rich in magnesium, Citrus & vitamin C rich foods-support adrenals and copper balance.
4️⃣Consistent timing for meals & snacks with proteins carbs and fats to help support blood sugar. Meal tips here!
5️⃣Prioritize Daily Routines with your non-negotiables like: Reading, meditation, walks, eating, movement, winding down time. Stay consistent! Research shows that it can take anywhere from 18 to 254 days for someone to form a new habit. Let’s talk more about morning and bedtime routines!
Morning Routine:
☀️ Morning person or not, having a set routine can be beneficial. First, a good morning starts the night before-am I right? Be sure to prioritize getting to bed at a decent time to support incorporating the new routine. ⏰ A great morning routine is the one that works for you. Not everyone will be able to have a lengthy routine due to time constraints or family obligations and that’s okay.
Here are some ideas:
Don’t pick up your phone right away: Scrolling Instagram and reading emails can wait. When you reach for your phone right after you wake up, you put yourself directly into reactive mode. This can cause you to lose focus and get stressed before you’ve even made it out of bed.
Making your bed takes about two minutes and it gives you a quick, easy sense of accomplishment right off the bat. Plus, it makes your room look neat and tidy even if the rest of your space is messy.
Eat Something Even if you’re not a big breakfast person, getting some nutrients in your body can really turn on your brain. Having a balanced meal can go a long way toward improving your mood and energy levels right off the bat. Whatever constitutes breakfast for you, just get some food into your body.
Do something for yourself each morning. Even if you just have five minutes, you can stretch, do a quick meditation, journal or work on a crossword puzzle while you drink your morning coffee. (Catching up on social media can also count as self care if this activity truly brings you joy. )
Write—or review—your daily to-do list and calendar Check over what’s on deck for the day so you don’t run into any surprises. You might even block off ten minutes or so to look over emails and address any messages that need to be taken care of right away. 📧
Bedtime Routine:
Sleep is consistently the most underrated aspect of any health & wellness journey. Creating & maintaining a bedtime routine is the best way to prioritize a good night’s sleep.
It’s best to be consistent with the time- set an alarm or notification on your phone. It will be a help signal that it’s time to unplug and start your bedtime routine.
The circadian rhythm regulates the body’s temperature, lowering the thermostat to 65 degrees is a good temperature for sleep. The body will adapt to the lower room temperature and you will begin to feel drowsy. Turning off or lowering bright lights can help with the process. As we know with screen time, exposure to bright lights before bedtime affects the circadian rhythm.
Screens from TVs, smartphones and laptops emit blue light that stimulates the body’s internal clock (circadian rhythm), keeping you buzzing long after it’s time to hibernate for the night. Sleep studies have shown that exposure to high amounts of blue light before bed can lower melatonin levels, resulting in sleeplessness and delayed REM sleep.
Journaling is good for mental health by reducing stress and helping you remember good ideas before sleep.
Using foam rolling and yoga for sleep will help relax your muscles and ground your mind before bed. They decelerate the mind and body, relieve tension and improve sleep quality.
Aromatherapy are used to help with stress management.
❔HOW LONG should my bedtime routine be? About 30 to 60 minutes. This will give you enough time to unwind without feeling rushed.
Okay back to the final aspect of today’s post for supporting your body during stressful times:
6️⃣TOXINS – Specific chemicals called halogens (bromine, chlorine, and fluorine) compete with iodine and bind to thyroid receptors, preventing thyroid hormones from working properly. Filtering fluoride and chloride out of your drinking and bath/shower water helps those with thyroid dysfunction. More Information here
Research says about 90% of cancers are a result of a lifetime of dysfunction: stress, poor nutrition, toxin exposure, chronic hormone imbalance etc. It is estimated that it takes up to 10 years for cancer to develop in the body. Every day our environment and personal choices provide information to cells, in a constant feedback loop. Research has shown us many factors that cause cancer cell development—we can use this information to optimize our environments, nutrition, hormones, etc, create a healthy terrain, and mitigate cancer risk. The body is always responding to us, and healing is possible! One of my favorite resources is here! Leigh Erin Connealy, M.D.
In summary
Addressing intestinal permeability, blood sugar imbalances, and other stress-induced dysfunctions through proper nutrition will help rebuild resilience. For those with severe gut issues, a nutrient-dense, elimination-style diet—like carnivore plus easy-to-digest carbs—may be necessary short-term to restore balance. In the end, listening to your body is critical. Experiment with what makes you feel good, trust yourself, and remember: you know best.
By shifting your mindset and supporting your body with proper fuel, you can navigate life’s stressors with resilience and strength.
🎙️ Tune in now to learn how to take control of your stress before it takes control of you!
In this week’s episode, we dive into the power of Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) tapping — a unique blend of traditional Chinese medicine and modern psychology. By tapping on specific meridian points while addressing emotional struggles, EFT helps release energy blockages, reducing stress, anxiety, and even trauma. 🌱✨
In this powerful episode, I sit down with holistic healing expert Theresa Piela to explore the deep connection between chronic stress and health. Theresa shares her personal story of hitting rock bottom in 2019, when chronic illness nearly led to organ failure. We dive into the guilt and exhaustion that comes with being chronically ill in a toxic world, and how healing techniques like Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) tapping can offer relief. 🌱✨
We’ll explore how EFT has shown promising results in mental health, from lowering cortisol levels to easing PTSD symptoms in veterans. However, with its roots in spiritual and energetic practices, EFT has sparked controversy in some Christian communities. Join us as we unpack these perspectives and discuss how EFT can be a powerful tool for both emotional and physical healing.
The Impact of Stress on the Body
Understanding Stress:Theresa breaks down the three stages of stress and how they manifest in our daily lives, leading to digestive issues and chronic illnesses. She sheds light on the silent havoc that prolonged stress wreaks on our gut health and overall bodily functions.
The Three Stages of Stress and the Fawning Response: Understanding How High-Control Religions Impact Emotional Well-Being
Stress is an inevitable part of life, but how our bodies and minds respond to it can vary significantly depending on the intensity and duration of the stressor. Hans Selye, a pioneering endocrinologist, developed the General Adaptation Syndrome (GAS) to describe the body’s physiological response to stress. This model helps explain how prolonged stress affects overall health and well-being. While the three stages of stress capture the body’s core reactions, the behavioral response known as fawning—especially common among individuals who have come out of high-control environments like fundamentalist religions—adds another layer to this discussion.
The Three Stages of Stress: General Adaptation Syndrome
Selye’s General Adaptation Syndrome describes how the body responds to stress over time, detailing three distinct stages:
1. Alarm Stage
This is the initial, immediate response to a stressor. When faced with a perceived threat, the body goes into “fight or flight” mode, releasing adrenaline and cortisol. These stress hormones increase heart rate, sharpen focus, and provide a surge of energy to prepare you to either confront the threat or escape it. In modern life, this could be triggered by anything from a work deadline to an argument with a loved one.
2. Resistance Stage
If the stressor continues beyond the initial shock, the body enters the resistance stage. While the outward signs of the fight-or-flight response might fade, internally, the body is still on high alert. Stress hormones like cortisol remain elevated, and the body tries to adapt and cope. However, this stage can’t last forever. Prolonged exposure to stress at this level takes a toll on the body, potentially leading to mental and physical exhaustion.
3. Exhaustion Stage
When stress continues for a prolonged period without adequate recovery, the body eventually reaches the exhaustion stage. Here, the body’s resources are depleted, and it can no longer function normally. Symptoms such as fatigue, depression, anxiety, and even burnout may manifest. The immune system weakens, making the individual more vulnerable to illness and disease.
Understanding these stages is crucial for recognizing when stress becomes chronic and dangerous. But there’s more to the picture when considering how stress affects behavior—especially in people who have experienced trauma or high-control environments.
Enter the Fawning Response: A Behavioral Reaction to Trauma
Fawning doesn’t fit neatly into the General Adaptation Syndrome model because it’s a behavioral rather than a purely physiological response. Still, it’s crucial to understanding how certain people cope with chronic stress or trauma, particularly in interpersonal or high-control environments.
The “Four Fs” of trauma responses—Fight, Flight, Freeze, and Fawn—describe various ways people react when they feel threatened. While fighting, fleeing, or freezing are instinctive survival responses, fawning is a more subtle and less discussed way of coping, often rooted in a need to appease the threat to maintain safety.
What Is Fawning?
Fawning involves appeasing or placating others to avoid conflict or harm. People who fawn try to please or appease the person or situation causing the stress in order to de-escalate the threat. Instead of confronting the stressor (fight), avoiding it (flight), or becoming immobilized (freeze), a person who fawns seeks to reduce the danger by submitting, people-pleasing, or over-accommodating.
This behavior often develops in individuals who have experienced prolonged stress or trauma, especially in abusive, manipulative, or high-control environments like toxic relationships or fundamentalist religions.
How Fawning Fits into the General Adaptation Syndrome Model
Although fawning isn’t a stage of stress, we can still see how it might manifest within the GAS framework:
Alarm Stage: Fawning could be an immediate response to the initial stressor. Rather than fleeing or fighting, someone might instinctively try to placate the threat. For instance, in a high-control religion, a person might conform instantly to avoid punishment or conflict.
Resistance Stage: If the stress persists, fawning can become a habitual response during the resistance stage. The person continues engaging in appeasement behaviors, attempting to manage the ongoing stressor while sacrificing their own needs and well-being in the process.
Exhaustion Stage: Over time, relying on fawning as a coping mechanism can lead to emotional and physical exhaustion. Constantly trying to meet others’ demands, avoiding conflict, and suppressing one’s own needs results in burnout and emotional depletion.
Fawning and High-Control Religions: The Long-Lasting Impact
People who come out of high-control religions often exhibit the fawning response as they attempt to navigate new environments and relationships. These religions typically operate with strict rules, strong hierarchies, and harsh consequences for dissent. As a result, members often suppress their own needs and opinions to avoid punishment or ostracism.
Even after leaving these environments, the pattern of fawning often persists. The deeply ingrained survival mechanism of appeasing authority figures to avoid conflict becomes habitual. This behavior may manifest in various ways:
People-pleasing: Going out of their way to accommodate others, even at the expense of their own well-being.
Difficulty asserting boundaries: Struggling to say no or express personal needs and preferences, often feeling guilty for doing so.
Fear of conflict: Avoiding disagreements or confrontations out of fear of rejection or punishment.
Self-silencing: Suppressing thoughts, feelings, and opinions in order to maintain harmony and avoid disapproval.
For those deconstructing from high-control religions, the fawning response can be particularly challenging to recognize and unlearn. Many may not even realize that their behaviors are rooted in a trauma response. Helping individuals understand and break these patterns is essential for their emotional recovery.
Moving Forward: Unlearning Fawning and Rebuilding Self-Worth
Breaking the cycle of fawning involves learning to assert boundaries, rebuild self-worth, and reclaim personal autonomy. This is not an easy process, especially for those who have spent years in environments where appeasement was essential for survival. Therapy, support groups, and self-compassion can be powerful tools in helping people regain their sense of self after leaving high-control environments.
By recognizing fawning as a response to trauma and stress, individuals can begin to unlearn these behaviors, reclaim their identity, and create healthier relationships—both with others and with themselves.
Understanding stress responses, both physiological and behavioral, is key to supporting individuals who are recovering from trauma. Recognizing the fawning response and how it fits into the broader stress picture can open the door to healing for those emerging from high-control situations like fundamentalist religions.
Mindset & Thought Shifting: Changing How We React to Stress
We must first accept that stress is a normal and natural part of life. Short-term stress, when followed by ample recovery, can enhance cognition and boost our capabilities. It’s like strength training: with proper recovery, the stress we place on our muscles leads to gains. However, persistent stress, if not managed properly, can be damaging. This is why we must shift our relationship with stress.
In times of severe depletion and exhaustion, recovery takes time and commitment. Start by meeting yourself where you are. Shift your mindset by deliberately choosing thoughts that signal to your body that everything is okay. Surround yourself with calming influences—whether it’s people, sounds, colors, or landscapes—that make you feel safe and hopeful. This isn’t a luxury; it’s a requirement for healing. Equally important is removing stimuli that drain you and recognizing that your body has an incredible capacity to heal when given the right tools.
As the Dalai Lama once said, “If a problem is fixable, if a situation is such that you can do something about it, then there is no need to worry. If it’s not fixable, then there is no help in worrying. There is no benefit in worrying whatsoever.”
Fuel & Nutrition: Supporting Your Body’s Adaptive Stress Response
Just as important as shifting your mindset is fueling your body with the right nutrients. A starved or inflamed system will struggle to adapt to stress, especially when trying to balance internal chaos. Proper nutrition is key to supporting the body’s stress response.
When the body isn’t fueled properly, persistent stress leads to harmful effects, such as blood sugar swings, hormonal dysregulation, and weakened immunity. To counteract this, we need to provide the body with the building blocks it needs to recover.
Here’s a high-level look at what your body requires for optimal function:
Proteins: Anti-inflammatory sources like grass-fed beef, broths, shellfish, and dairy.
Carbohydrates: Glucose and fructose from fruits, honey, maple syrup, and root vegetables.
Fats: Saturated fats are essential.
Vitamins & Minerals: Vitamin C, D, E, B1, B6, B12, calcium, magnesium, copper, sodium, potassium, selenium, and zinc.
Addressing intestinal permeability, blood sugar imbalances, and other stress-induced dysfunctions through proper nutrition will help rebuild resilience. For those with severe gut issues, a nutrient-dense, elimination-style diet—like carnivore plus easy-to-digest carbs—may be necessary short-term to restore balance.
In the end, listening to your body is critical. Experiment with what makes you feel good, trust yourself, and remember: you know best.
By shifting your mindset and supporting your body with proper fuel, you can navigate life’s stressors with resilience and strength.
Ever wonder why stress keeps you up at night?
Sleep Disruption and Hormones: How Stress, Trauma, and Hormonal Imbalances Impact Sleep Quality
Sleep is one of the most critical factors for overall health, and yet, it’s often disrupted by stress and hormonal imbalances. In this section, we’ll dive into how stress hormones like cortisol and adrenaline interfere with sleep, explore the impact of early life trauma on sleep quality, and discuss how the menstrual cycle and hormonal imbalances can further complicate our ability to achieve restful sleep.
Stress Hormones and Sleep Disruption
Stress hormones such as cortisol and adrenaline play significant roles in the body’s response to stress, but when they’re constantly elevated, they can wreak havoc on our sleep.
Cortisol: Often referred to as the “stress hormone,” cortisol follows a natural rhythm called the circadian rhythm. In healthy individuals, cortisol levels are highest in the morning to help us wake up and get ready for the day, and they naturally decline in the evening to prepare the body for rest. However, when we are under chronic stress, cortisol can become dysregulated. Instead of dropping at night, elevated cortisol levels can keep us in a state of alertness, making it difficult to fall asleep or stay asleep. This leads to frequent waking, shallow sleep, and feeling unrefreshed in the morning.
Adrenaline (Epinephrine): Adrenaline is the hormone responsible for the fight-or-flight response, which prepares the body to face a threat by increasing heart rate, blood flow, and energy levels. If adrenaline surges before bed—due to stress, anxiety, or even unresolved trauma—it can make falling asleep nearly impossible. You might feel restless, agitated, or have racing thoughts, all of which disturb the calm necessary for a good night’s sleep.
Practical Strategies for Managing Stress Hormones for Better Sleep
Create a Wind-Down Routine: Establishing a relaxing pre-sleep routine helps signal to your body that it’s time to rest. This can include dimming lights, turning off electronic devices (which emit blue light and can increase cortisol), and engaging in calming activities like reading, gentle stretching, or meditation.
Balance Blood Sugar: Blood sugar spikes and crashes can trigger cortisol release. Eating a well-balanced meal with protein, healthy fats, and complex carbohydrates before bed can stabilize blood sugar levels and prevent cortisol surges during the night.
Supplement Support: Some supplements, such as magnesium, have been shown to help reduce cortisol levels and promote relaxation. Herbal adaptogens like ashwagandha and holy basil can also support the body’s stress response and reduce cortisol.
Mind-Body Techniques: Practices like yoga, deep breathing exercises, and progressive muscle relaxation can help lower cortisol and calm the nervous system before sleep.
The Impact of Early Life Trauma and Adverse Events on Sleep
Early life trauma or Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) have profound effects on the body’s stress response systems, which can manifest later in life as sleep disturbances. Research shows that people who have experienced trauma, particularly in early development, often have overactive sympathetic nervous systems and altered cortisol levels, leading to difficulty achieving deep, restorative sleep.
Hypervigilance: Trauma survivors often experience hypervigilance, a heightened state of awareness where the body is constantly scanning for potential threats, even during sleep. This state of heightened arousal makes it hard to relax, and the individual may have trouble entering deeper stages of sleep like REM (Rapid Eye Movement) or slow-wave sleep.
Fragmented Sleep: Those with a history of trauma may wake frequently during the night, as their bodies remain on high alert. This fragmentation prevents the deep, uninterrupted sleep necessary for physical and emotional recovery.
Nightmares and Flashbacks: Trauma-related nightmares are common and can disrupt sleep, causing the individual to wake in distress. Flashbacks, even during waking hours, can trigger the body’s stress response, elevating cortisol and adrenaline and making sleep difficult.
Strategies to Address Sleep Disruption in Trauma Survivors
Trauma-Informed Therapy: Engaging in trauma therapy, such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia (CBT-I) or Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), can help individuals process traumatic memories and regulate their nervous system responses, ultimately improving sleep.
Grounding Techniques: Practicing grounding exercises, such as focusing on your breath or engaging your five senses, can help bring your body back into the present moment, reducing hypervigilance and promoting relaxation before bed.
Sleep-Friendly Environment: Creating a sleep environment that feels safe and secure is crucial for trauma survivors. Using weighted blankets, soothing sounds, and minimizing noise or light disturbances can enhance feelings of safety during sleep.
The Role of Menstrual Cycles and Hormonal Imbalances in Sleep Disruption
For many women, sleep disturbances can be closely tied to the fluctuations in estrogen, progesterone, and other hormones that occur throughout the menstrual cycle. Hormonal imbalances, especially during perimenopause or menopause, can further exacerbate sleep issues.
Estrogen and Progesterone: These hormones play vital roles in regulating sleep. Estrogen promotes sleep by increasing serotonin, a neurotransmitter that helps regulate mood and sleep patterns. Progesterone has a calming, sedative effect on the brain and helps prepare the body for sleep. However, imbalances in these hormones—whether due to the menstrual cycle, pregnancy, or menopause—can lead to insomnia, night sweats, and difficulty staying asleep.
Premenstrual Sleep Disruption: Many women experience disrupted sleep in the luteal phase of their cycle (the days leading up to menstruation), when progesterone levels spike and then rapidly drop. This sudden shift can lead to insomnia or restless sleep, often accompanied by PMS symptoms like bloating, mood swings, and cramps.
Perimenopause and Menopause: As women approach menopause, declining estrogen and progesterone levels can lead to hot flashes, night sweats, and other symptoms that interfere with sleep. The lack of estrogen can also cause vaginal dryness and discomfort, further disrupting rest.
Cortisol and Menstrual Cycles: High cortisol levels, often due to stress, can also impact the menstrual cycle by suppressing the release of sex hormones, leading to irregular periods or exacerbating PMS symptoms, which in turn disrupt sleep.
Practical Strategies for Hormonal Sleep Issues
Track Your Cycle: By tracking your menstrual cycle, you can become more aware of patterns in sleep disturbances and adjust your habits accordingly. For instance, you might prioritize stress management techniques and good sleep hygiene during the luteal phase.
Herbal Support: Certain herbs like chasteberry (Vitex), black cohosh, and red clover can help balance estrogen and progesterone levels, potentially reducing sleep issues related to PMS or menopause.
Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT): For women in perimenopause or menopause, bioidentical hormone replacement therapy (BHRT) can help restore hormone balance, improving sleep quality. Consulting a healthcare provider about HRT options may be helpful.
Takeaway: Supporting Hormonal Balance for Better Sleep
Stress, trauma, and hormonal imbalances each play a major role in sleep disruption, but by managing stress hormones, addressing trauma, and supporting hormonal health, you can improve your ability to achieve deep, restorative sleep. Prioritizing sleep hygiene, engaging in calming practices, balancing blood sugar, and supporting hormone levels with natural or medical interventions are key strategies in restoring balance and reclaiming restful nights.
Nutritional and Lifestyle Adjustments: Theresa shares actionable tips on how to nourish your body for better sleep. From balancing blood sugar to enjoying nutritionally dense meals, she emphasizes the importance of tuning into what your body needs, rather than following rigid dietary rules. We also explore the benefits of bedtime snacks like fructose, carbs, and chamomile tea to promote restful sleep.
Emotional Resilience and Self-Compassion: In a world that demands so much from us, Theresa encourages us to meet ourselves with curiosity and compassion. She reminds us that it’s okay to feel frustrated, angry, or tired—these emotions are part of being human. Through self-experimentation and treating ourselves with the kindness we would offer a child, we can navigate the healing journey with more grace.
Tune in to this episode for a heartfelt and insightful discussion that will leave you with practical tools and a renewed sense of hope on your path to healing. Whether you’re struggling with insomnia, chronic stress, or just trying to find balance in a chaotic world, Theresa’s wisdom is not to be missed.
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Amygdala hijacking refers to an emotional response where the amygdala, a part of the brain responsible for processing emotions like fear and anger, overrides the more rational prefrontal cortex. This results in an immediate, intense emotional reaction that may not align with the actual situation or its demands. It’s a term popularized by Daniel Goleman in his book Emotional Intelligence.
The Science Behind It
Amygdala Activation: When we perceive a threat, the amygdala activates and triggers the “fight-or-flight” response. This can lead to rapid and intense emotional reactions.
Cortex Override: The prefrontal cortex, responsible for higher-order thinking and decision-making, is temporarily bypassed during this process. This can result in impulsive actions or responses that we later regret.
Biological Basis: This mechanism is rooted in our evolutionary past, where quick reactions to potential dangers were crucial for survival.
The amygdala is the part of the brain responsible for processing emotions like fear and anger, and it can override the more rational prefrontal cortex. This results in an immediate, intense emotional reaction that may not align with the actual situation or its demands.
Interesting Facts
Evolutionary Perspective: Amygdala hijacking is an adaptive response from our ancestors who needed to react swiftly to threats. However, in modern contexts, it can lead to overreactions in situations where a calm, rational response would be more appropriate.
Stress Impact: Chronic stress can heighten the likelihood of amygdala hijacking, leading to more frequent emotional outbursts and difficulty managing stress effectively.
Amygdala Hijack in Dogmatic Communities
Fear-Based Teachings: Constant fear in these environments keeps people in a perpetual state of alertness, reducing rational thought.
Groupthink: Heightened emotions can suppress dissent and reinforce dogmatic beliefs.
Manipulation: Leaders might exploit these reactions to maintain control and keep members emotionally aroused and manipulable.
Understanding Emotional Hijacking & Complex PTSD
In the book📘Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving by Pete Walker, it sheds light on what Goleman refers to as “amygdala hijacking”—an intense, overwhelming emotional regression that pulls us back to the states of fear, shame, and depression we experienced in childhood.
How Do You Know If You’re in an Amygdala Hijack? 🤔
Here are some signs that you’re in the midst of one:
Intense Emotional Response: If you’re feeling an overwhelming emotion like rage, panic, or intense frustration, that seems to come out of nowhere, this could be a sign of an amygdala hijack.
Tunnel Vision: When your focus narrows, and it feels like all you can see or think about is the source of your stress or anger, your brain’s rational thinking process is being overridden.
Physical Reactions: Notice if your body is responding—heart racing, palms sweating, muscles tensing. These physical signs often accompany an amygdala hijack as your body prepares for ‘fight or flight.’
Impulsive Behavior: Acting without thinking, like shouting, making rash decisions, or storming out of a room, can be a clear indicator that your amygdala has taken over.
Regret or Embarrassment Later: If you find yourself feeling regretful or embarrassed about your reaction after the fact, it’s likely that your prefrontal cortex (responsible for reasoning) was bypassed during the moment.
Recognizing these signs in the moment can be challenging, but it’s the first step toward managing and mitigating their impact.
How this impacts you:
While in a stressed out, sympathetic state, our decision making will be impulsive, emotional and geared towards instant gratification.
In this state, the vagus nerve (our body’s master control switch) can impact everything from immune function to gut health, all the way to how we behave in social settings.
Research: It takes time for your brain to recover from this stress response, but mindfulness and cognitive strategies can help manage it.
Want 13 Tips for Managing Amygdala Hijacks?
We all experience these intense emotional responses, but the good news is there are strategies to help you regain control and respond more calmly.
In this week’s podcast episode, we break down these 13 actionable tips to help you navigate these moments with greater awareness and poise. Whether it’s learning how to pause before reacting or practicing mindfulness techniques, we’ve got you covered.
The amygdala hijack is a powerful brain response that can override our rational thinking, especially in high-stress or dogmatic environments. However, understanding its mechanisms and the role of nutrition in emotional regulation can help us manage our responses more effectively.
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