Thanksgiving marks a season of reflection, yet gratitude isn’t always easy to come by—especially after an election year, when cognitive overload and societal stress dominate our attention. This isn’t just a personal struggle; neuroscience suggests our brains are wired to focus on negativity, a phenomenon called negativity bias. This tendency, coupled with cultural norms emphasizing individual success and the relentless comparisons driven by social media, makes practicing gratitude a skill we must consciously develop.
In my work as a coach and host of Taste of Truth Tuesdays, I often explore how habits—like fitness, nutrition, or mindfulness—shape not just our bodies, but our minds. Gratitude operates the same way: it’s not a passive feeling, but an active practice. According to Dr. Monica Johnson, gratitude has the power to rewire your brain, reducing stress and boosting resilience. Here’s why it can be so hard—and how you can overcome those challenges.
Why Gratitude Feels So Hard
1. Negativity Bias
Our brains are wired to prioritize threats and negative experiences over positive ones. This evolutionary survival mechanism can make it harder to notice or appreciate the good in our lives.
2. High Expectations and Comparisons
Social media amplifies the pressure to compare our lives to others, often creating unrealistic standards. When our focus shifts to what we lack, gratitude takes a backseat.
3. Cognitive Overload and Stress
Life moves fast, and our schedules are packed. Reflecting on what we’re thankful for requires slowing down—a luxury stress and busyness don’t easily allow.
4. Cultural and Social Conditioning
In cultures that prize personal achievement and material success, gratitude can feel secondary. Celebrating milestones and accomplishments may overshadow smaller, everyday joys.
5. Mental Health Challenges
Depression, anxiety, and trauma can make it difficult to recognize and appreciate the positives in life. These conditions often shift focus to worries, fears, or a sense of helplessness.
6. Entitlement Mindset
When we feel entitled to certain comforts or successes, it diminishes our ability to see them as gifts, fostering dissatisfaction instead of gratitude.
7. Lack of Practice
Gratitude is a skill, not just an attitude. Without consistent effort, it’s easy for this muscle to weaken.
The Science of Gratitude: Three Proven Strategies
Fortunately, research provides powerful tools to strengthen gratitude. These practices are straightforward, effective, and supported by science.
1. Gratitude Journaling
One of the simplest and most effective methods is keeping a gratitude journal. Regularly writing down three to five things you’re thankful for has been shown to boost emotional well-being and reduce stress.
As a gardener and homesteader, I’ve found parallels here: journaling is like planting seeds of positivity. With time, those seeds grow into a garden of resilience and contentment.
Why it works:
A study by Dr. Robert Emmons, a leading researcher on gratitude, found that journaling helps rewire the brain by reinforcing positive experiences. This practice shifts focus away from what’s missing in your life toward what’s already there.
How to do it:
Spend five minutes each evening listing specific things you’re grateful for.
Be detailed—rather than “I’m grateful for my family,” write, “I’m grateful for the family dinner we had tonight where everyone laughed together.”
2. Gratitude Letters or Visits
Writing a heartfelt letter to someone who has positively impacted your life is another effective practice. Even better? Deliver the letter in person or send it to them.
Why it works:
Research highlighted by Dr. Monica Johnson of The Savvy Psychologist shows that thanking someone you’ve never properly appreciated increases happiness immediately and for up to a month afterward. The act deepens relationships and reinforces a sense of connection.
How to do it:
Reflect on someone who has helped or supported you in a meaningful way.
Write a sincere letter describing what they did and why it mattered.
Deliver it, either in person, through a video call, or via mail.
For me, this practice reminds me of the people who’ve supported my journey—from launching my podcast to building a small homestead.
3. Mental Subtraction of Positive Events
Instead of focusing on what you’re grateful for, imagine your life without certain positive aspects. This “mental subtraction” technique can powerfully enhance your appreciation for what you have.
Why it works:
A study published in the Journal of Positive Psychology revealed that imagining life without key blessings intensifies gratitude by showing how much worse life could be. This perspective shift cultivates appreciation even for things we take for granted.
How to do it:
Think about a cherished relationship, opportunity, or moment in your life.
Reflect on how your life would be without it.
Let this realization deepen your gratitude for that aspect of your life.
I often reflect on what life would be like without the small joys I’ve cultivated—like watching our garden grow or exploring life with my 3 dogs. It’s a powerful way to deepen appreciation for the present.
Gratitude is a Skill Worth Building
Gratitude might not come naturally, but with consistent practice, it can become a cornerstone of emotional resilience and happiness. By journaling, expressing thanks to others, and practicing mental subtraction, you can train your brain to focus on the good—even amidst life’s challenges.
Gratitude isn’t just a feel-good emotion—it’s a powerful mental tool that rewires your brain for better health and happiness. Through neuroplasticity, gratitude practices such as journaling or simply expressing thanks, strengthen neural pathways linked to positive emotions and weaken those associated with stress or negativity. This results in reduced anxiety, lower cortisol (the stress hormone), and improved mood
But the benefits don’t stop at mental health. Gratitude is also linked to better heart health, stronger immune function, and improved sleep quality. By calming the nervous system, gratitude promotes relaxation and a sense of well-being. Plus, it enhances emotional intelligence, fostering empathy, compassion, and stronger social connections
As Dr. Monica Johnson reminds us, gratitude is like a muscle: it grows stronger the more you use it. This Thanksgiving, and in the year ahead, let’s commit to cultivating gratitude as a daily habit. The rewards—a brighter perspective, deeper connections, and greater joy—are well worth the effort.
Gratitude isn’t about ignoring pain or hardship—it’s about recognizing the value in the journey. Whether you’re navigating personal struggles, cultural pressures, or simply a stressful holiday season, gratitude offers a way to stay curious, grounded, and resilient.
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Which gratitude strategy will you try first? Let me know in the comments!
For a deeper exploration of the science of gratitude, you can check out these insightful resources:
Books:
The Gratitude Diaries by Janice Kaplan – This book blends personal storytelling with scientific research on the power of gratitude in transforming daily life.
Thanks! How the New Science of Gratitude Can Make You Happier by Robert Emmons – Emmons, one of the leading researchers in the field, explores the science behind gratitude and how practicing it can improve physical and mental health.
The Happiness Advantage by Shawn Achor – Achor discusses how happiness, including gratitude, can lead to success in work and life by creating a positive mindset.
Studies and Articles:
Gratitude and Well-being (Greater Good Science Center) – A collection of studies demonstrating that gratitude can improve overall well-being, reduce stress, and enhance relationshipsGreater Good.
A study published in Psychology of Well-Being found that practicing gratitude regularly can help reduce negative emotions and promote a greater sense of life satisfactionGreater Good.
TED Talks:
“The Power of Vulnerability” by Brené Brown – Brown explores how embracing vulnerability, along with gratitude, leads to a deeper connection with others and personal well-being.
“What’s So Funny About Gratitude?” by Robyn Stratton-Berkessel – In this talk, Stratton-Berkessel discusses the profound impact that asking about positive experiences can have on fostering gratitude in everyday life PositivePsychology.com.
“The Secret to Happiness is Helping Others” by Mike Robbins – Robbins highlights how gratitude, especially when expressed towards others, can create a ripple effect of kindness and well-beingPositivePsychology.com.
These resources provide a rich blend of personal, scientific, and practical perspectives on how gratitude can enhance our lives.
Forget your zombie apocalypse fantasies — the real outbreak is Trump Derangement Syndrome (TDS), where rational thinking flies out the window the moment “Orange Man” is mentioned. TDS has become a modern-day fever that sends reasonable minds into a frenzy. If you’ve seen this around you, you’re not alone. But let me just say, I get it! I used to be there. When Trump won in 2016, I cried. I felt the devastation, the outrage, the “what’s happening to our country?!” moment that so many others experienced. I believed the media narratives without question and wore that emotional turmoil like a badge. But then, something clicked. I started researching more carefully, looking into primary sources, seeking out independent media, and asking myself what I was really feeling about the issues rather than just repeating the party line. Over time, I saw the layers of complexity, nuance, and even hypocrisy that I’d never realized before.
Now, let’s take a deeper look at each of the TDS symptoms:
Symptoms of TDS: Diagnosing the Outrage
1. “Fascist! Racist! Sexist!”
If you so much as mention Trump in a positive light, brace yourself for the onslaught: you’re suddenly a fascist, racist, sexist, homophobic, xenophobic, bigoted conspiracy theorist out to destroy democracy. The irony? This mob is so quick to throw every name in the book that the words have lost all meaning. Their logic: if you disagree, you’re evil. How convenient.
2. Family? Friends? Disposable!
TDS has reached the point where people are cutting off family members over their voting history. Imagine tossing a lifelong friendship because Uncle Joe wore a MAGA hat. For some with TDS, Thanksgiving isn’t a holiday; it’s a battleground. It’s not just about politics anymore — it’s a moral crusade where every dissenting opinion is a betrayal. Call it selective outrage syndrome.
3. Corporate Parrot Mode Activated
When TDS takes over, suddenly the most “anti-establishment” folks turn into the establishment’s biggest fans. They unironically parrot lines from Big Pharma, media conglomerates, tech giants, intelligence agencies, the military-industrial complex, and yes, even the World Economic Forum. In their minds, anything outside these sources? A dangerous conspiracy. “Think for yourself” only applies as long as you’re thinking exactly what they’re thinking.
4. Cancel Culture Gone Wild
Got a book that challenges the status quo? Banned. Statue of a historical figure? Torn down. Art that doesn’t align with the current narrative. Erased. For TDS-ers, history is only as valid as its alignment with their worldview. It’s a never-ending purge of anything that might cause them the slightest discomfort. The new motto? If it offends, it ends.
5. Segregation 2.0
In the wild world of TDS, segregation is back — but now it’s “progressive.” We’re talking division by race, medical status, and whatever category might boost moral superiority. They claim to champion equality, but at every turn, it’s “us versus them.” TDS has transformed inclusivity into a new, hyper-policed form of exclusivity.
6. Piercings, Tattoos, Hair Colors Galore
Extreme individuality, TDS-style: where everyone rebels in exactly the same way. TDS-driven defiance usually manifests in whatever new trend they’re convinced will “stick it to the man”. Just like TDS itself, this uniform has turned rebellion into a team sport. Black masks, blue hair — it’s the official TDS fashion statement. Strut your stuff with the same look as every other anti-establishment warrior on the block. For a movement obsessed with individuality, TDS sure has a strict dress code.
7. “Reproductive Justice” with Selective Amnesia
TDS champions “reproductive rights” but often glosses over the darker history of eugenics behind some early advocates. They’ll celebrate organizations without ever acknowledging where they came from. Bring up Margaret Sanger’s disturbing past, and watch them squirm — or, more likely, accuse you of “attacking reproductive freedom.”
8. Riot, Loot, and Celebrate Criminality (but Take Away the Guns)
TDS folks will tell you that looting and burning buildings are “mostly peaceful.” They cheer on criminality as “expression” but demand that law-abiding citizens be disarmed. In their perfect world, the government holds all the power, while citizens are stripped of their rights. Because nothing says “justice” like leaving the people defenseless.
9. Senile Man Isn’t Senile (and Don’t You Dare Say Otherwise)
Exhibit A of TDS reality distortion: insisting that “Senile Man” is sharp, focused, and totally not slipping. TDS defenders will rationalize every stutter, stumble, and lapse as just “endearing quirks.” They’ve become professional apologists for a guy who can barely string a sentence together without a script.
10. Open Borders Good, Secure Borders Bad
In the TDS worldview, open borders are a humanitarian triumph, and peace negotiations are…dangerous? They cheer escalating tensions and possible war, insisting it’s good for democracy. But God forbid someone suggests security at the borders. That’s “xenophobic” — unless they need walls and fences around their own neighborhoods.
11. MAGA and Russia: The Root of All Evil
To the TDS-affected, MAGA and Russia are the villains of every story. Whatever the issue, it’s their fault. Rising costs, climate disasters, bad sports scores? It’s all “MAGA” or Putin. It’s like a never-ending game of political Mad Libs, where every blank is filled with the same two villains.
12. January 6 is the New 9/11
The narrative: January 6 was on par with Pearl Harbor and 9/11. For TDS followers, a chaotic day at the Capitol has somehow become a world-altering tragedy on par with historic attacks on America. The comparison is absurd, but TDS won’t let it go. Any criticism? Clearly you’re downplaying “the darkest day in history.”
13. Blind Obedience Rebranded as “Saving Democracy”
TDS logic: the only way to “save democracy” is by silencing dissent, canceling opinions, and obeying government orders without question. It’s like a self-contradictory campaign slogan: “Destroy freedom to protect it!” And somehow, they think they’re the enlightened ones.
14. Buzzword Bingo
TDS rhetoric is powered by slogans that sound deep but are emptier than a plastic grocery bag in a windstorm. You’ll hear phrases like “destroy democracy to save it,” “compliance is justice,” and “love wins,” even when they’re trampling over their own definitions. It’s a language of feel-good contradictions — because if it sounds right, who cares if it is right?
TDS Prognosis: From Reason to Rage
Unfortunately, TDS seems to be getting worse, not better. Studies suggest that heavy doses of mainstream media, academic echo chambers, and social media influencers are turning normal folks into a rage-fueled army of identical outrage. And when you throw in teachers’ unions, college admin, and some politicians adding fuel to the fire, it’s no wonder we’re seeing otherwise smart, decent people morph into full-time outrage machines.
In the end, TDS has turned the political landscape into a circus of contradictions, hysterics, and nonsensical slogans. If you’re ready for an apocalypse, you might not need zombies — TDS has already created an army of the enraged, who follow the leader without question, convinced they’re fighting the good fight by shutting down everything they disagree with.
Treatment: A Cure for TDS?
Can you reason with someone deep in TDS? Sometimes it feels impossible, but it’s worth trying. A demoralized person is hard to reach, but most cases of TDS aren’t terminal. Many of those “80 million” Biden voters are reasonable, everyday people who just might be open to a conversation. Looking at the 2024 election landscape, Trump and the GOP have undeniably tapped into a broader, more diverse demographic. Today’s Republican candidates come from various backgrounds, with f igures like Tulsi Gabbard and Vivek Ramaswamy, representing unique perspectives, which is a first for the party on this scale. This diverse mix shows that the party’s focus is evolving—centered not just on identity but on a broader range of ideas.POLITICO.
Let’s resist the divisive forces that are feeding TDS and bring civility back into the mix.
So, here’s the prescription:
Step Away from MSM: The first step is to lower their dose of mainstream media. It’s like a detox.
Upgrade the Information Diet: Guide them toward new, independent sources of information. Look for voices that don’t just echo the usual talking points.
Watch The Coddling of the American Mind: This documentary challenges the ideas that have cultivated TDS and offers perspective on resilience and openness.
Take a Walk Outside: Nature is good for the soul. Sometimes, the answer is as simple as fresh air, sunshine, and a reminder that the world is bigger than our screens.
Hit the Gym: Physical exercise has been shown to reduce anxiety and improve mental clarity. Plus, it’s hard to hold onto bitterness when you’re in the zone.
And Most Importantly, Laugh: Humor can bridge divides faster than any debate. Remember, we can disagree and still respect each other.
Let’s turn down the heat and work on genuine conversations—who knows, maybe one by one, we can cure TDS for good.
But on the real though, breaking through what’s commonly called Trump Derangement Syndrome (TDS) requires understanding why these deeply polarizing reactions arise and how to gently engage people in constructive, open-minded discussions. Here are some insightful resources and strategies to help you navigate TDS, improve communication, and potentially help those caught in it see multiple perspectives more clearly.
1. Books on Political Polarization and Media Influence
“The Coddling of the American Mind” by Jonathan Haidt and Greg Lukianoff This book explores why younger generations are more anxious and polarized, linking it to trends in education, media, and social conditioning. It discusses the impact of overprotection and “safetyism” on mental resilience, which can feed into extreme reactions to political figures like Trump.
“Righteous Mind: Why Good People Are Divided by Politics and Religion” by Jonathan Haidt Haidt’s book explains the moral psychology behind political divides, providing insight into why people demonize others for their beliefs. It’s a resource that encourages empathy and offers tools to understand why certain people feel so strongly about political figures.
“Hate, Inc.” by Matt Taibbi This book takes a deep dive into how the media creates division, rage, and fear to keep audiences engaged. Taibbi argues that both sides of the political spectrum are manipulated by media tactics, which can lead to knee-jerk reactions and a lack of critical thinking.
“Thinking, Fast and Slow” by Daniel Kahneman Kahneman’s insights into the psychology of decision-making and biases are incredibly valuable for understanding how snap judgments form. This is essential for recognizing why some people react so viscerally to certain public figures and how they might break out of these biases.
2. Documentaries and Videos
“The Social Dilemma” This documentary shows how social media platforms amplify outrage and division. It explains how algorithms reward extreme views and reinforce confirmation biases. Viewing this can help someone understand how media exposure may fuel polarized reactions.
Interviews and Talks by Jonathan Haidt Haidt’s lectures on YouTube about political polarization and moral psychology provide easily digestible explanations for why people become entrenched in their beliefs and hostile toward others. His work emphasizes empathy and understanding, which are key in bridging divides.
Interviews with Matt Taibbi on Media Influence Journalist Matt Taibbi frequently discusses media’s role in inflaming division and mistrust. Hearing his perspective on how media drives certain narratives can help someone rethink their news consumption.
3. Podcasts and Alternative Media Outlets
The Joe Rogan Experience Rogan’s podcast often features diverse viewpoints, including from figures who challenge mainstream narratives. Rogan’s open-minded, questioning style can encourage listeners to think independently.
Breaking Points with Krystal and Saagar This independent news show is known for covering both left-wing and right-wing perspectives critically, making it valuable for people seeking balanced information. Hosts Krystal Ball and Saagar Enjeti offer nuanced discussions that don’t fall into mainstream narratives.
The Glenn Greenwald Podcast Greenwald, a journalist and political commentator, is known for challenging establishment narratives. His independent reporting encourages critical thinking and skepticism, which can help break through one-sided views.
4. Online Resources
AllSides.com This news aggregator presents articles from the left, center, and right, helping people see how the same story can be framed differently depending on the outlet. Regularly reading across the spectrum can help break the habit of ideological echo chambers.
Media Bias/Fact Check This site is useful for assessing the political leanings and reliability of different media outlets. People with TDS often trust only certain sources; this tool can provide insight into the biases of those sources, helping individuals diversify their information diet.
5. Therapeutic and Self-Awareness Tools
Mindfulness Practices Practicing mindfulness or meditation can help people become more self-aware and less reactive, making it easier to engage in rational conversations without emotional bias.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Techniques CBT exercises help people examine the roots of their thoughts and emotions. While this isn’t TDS-specific, understanding thought patterns and challenging automatic, often emotional, responses can reduce irrational thinking related to political issues.
6. Constructive Engagement Tips
Ask Open-Ended Questions Instead of directly challenging someone’s beliefs, ask them questions that make them think deeper: “What made you come to that conclusion?” or “Have you ever looked into other perspectives on this?”
Seek Common Ground Finding points of agreement before delving into differences can make conversations less confrontational and more constructive.
Limit Media Consumption Together If you’re close to someone who seems highly affected by TDS, suggest a “news detox” where both of you take a break from mainstream media. Instead, engage in activities like reading books, listening to long-form discussions, or spending time in nature.
Use Humor Humor can lighten intense topics and make them more approachable. It’s easier to discuss differences when the conversation doesn’t feel like a battle.
Encourage Journaling or Writing Writing can help people clarify their beliefs and analyze their emotions. It encourages self-reflection, which is helpful for overcoming rigid political opinions.
Breaking the cycle of TDS is more about cultivating open-mindedness, empathy, and critical thinking than directly trying to “change minds.” These resources and strategies can help create a space where productive conversations can happen.
In today’s world, friendships across moral and political divides may feel rare or even impossible. Yet, building these connections is crucial—not only for personal growth but for fostering a more understanding society. Here are some insights on how we can navigate friendships with those who think differently from us.
1. Prioritize Love and Respect
At the core, friendship is about mutual respect and care. This means loving people for who they are, not just for what they believe. We need to honor each other’s freedom to hold different beliefs and embrace their right to express those views. Friendship doesn’t require absolute agreement, but it does ask for compassion and understanding.
2. Don’t Demand Conformity
Friendship shouldn’t come with a contract that mandates agreement on all things. We shouldn’t require others to conform to our beliefs to be friends, and we shouldn’t yield to pressure to abandon our views just to fit in. True friendship allows for genuine individuality and respects each person’s journey and perspectives.
3. Be Open to Being Challenged—and to Challenging
Healthy friendships can—and should—include respectful debates. This means both parties are open to being challenged and not just the ones delivering the challenge. Friendships across ideological lines help us see our own potential blind spots and remind us of our shared humanity, even when we stand on opposing sides.
4. Avoid Manipulation
Good friends don’t manipulate or control the terms of a discussion. They don’t police each other’s language or attempt to steer the debate to “win.” They allow space for differing points of view, even if it means hearing arguments they might strongly disagree with. Friends listen, give feedback, and respect each other’s right to speak freely.
5. Beware of Becoming an Ideologue
If we’re unable to maintain friendships with those who disagree with us, it may be a sign that we’ve become too rigid in our own beliefs. Ideologues view every conversation as a battleground for their opinions rather than an opportunity to learn. Friendships across divides remind us to remain curious and to avoid slipping into dogmatism.
6. Understand Fallibility Beyond Theory
While many of us recognize, at least in theory, that we’re fallible, true humility shows when our beliefs are challenged. Can we accept the possibility that we may be wrong, even on topics that feel core to our identity? Genuine friendship requires this humility and the strength to accept another person’s differing viewpoint, especially when it stirs discomfort in us.
7. Recognize the Difficulty of Questioning Core Beliefs
When our most cherished beliefs are questioned, it’s natural to feel defensive. Yet it’s precisely in these moments that our strength of character is tested. Friendships can push us to reevaluate and deepen our beliefs, encouraging growth rather than pushing us further into echo chambers.
8. Embrace Truth-Seeking Together
True friends are fellow truth-seekers. They recognize their own fallibility and are open to being both the teacher and the student. They know that their own opinions aren’t the ultimate truth and welcome the exchange of ideas as a chance to grow, rather than as a threat to their identity.
9. Keep Political Conversations Civil and Honest
When it comes to political discussions, the words we choose can either bridge gaps or deepen divides. Friends owe each other honest, civil conversations that seek understanding rather than victory. This means resisting the temptation to label or demean each other with polarizing terms like “garbage,” “racist,” “fascist,” or “woke.” Labels like these oversimplify complex views, reducing people to caricatures and shutting down the opportunity for real dialogue. Instead, approach each conversation with a focus on reasons, providing evidence, and respect, valuing your friend’s perspective even if you don’t share it. In doing so, we uphold the true spirit of friendship and foster a more thoughtful, understanding discourse.
These 9 ideas were inspired by Robert P. Georg McCormick Professor.
In a world that seems increasingly divided, friendships that embrace disagreement are more valuable than ever. These friendships allow us to maintain our individuality while deepening our understanding and empathy. So, yes, we can—and should—be friends with those whose beliefs are vastly different from our own. It may be challenging, but the reward is a friendship built on respect, humility, and a shared commitment to growth.
When you grow up in a high-control environment—whether through religion, a rigid upbringing, or a spiritual path that preaches emotional suppression—it can feel like your natural human emotions are something to be ashamed of. I’ve lived it. In the high-control religion I was a part of, anger wasn’t just frowned upon; it was portrayed as sinful, a sign of personal failure or weakness. Through the lens of ACBC Biblical counseling (Nouthetic Counseling), anger was framed as something to be suppressed, manipulated out of existence with tactics like guilt, shame, and isolation. But here’s the truth: anger, like any other emotion, isn’t inherently wrong. It’s human. And when we lose access to it, we also lose access to parts of ourselves.
Anger, as Aristotle once put it, is a passion. When experienced and expressed for the right reasons and in the right way, it can even be virtuous. Yet, in so many spiritual environments, particularly the ones I encountered, emotions like anger were seen as dangerous, spiritually harmful, or outright sinful. Especially for women, who are often taught to prioritize harmony and remain calm at all costs, anger can become something we’re scared to touch. For men, anger might be more accepted, but vulnerability is not, creating its own emotional imbalance.
What happens when we suppress emotions like anger? We get stuck, often feeling disconnected from our bodies, from our creativity, and from any sense of playfulness. That’s why art and play become essential tools in healing from spiritual and religious trauma. They allow us to access and express emotions that were long buried, giving us the space to feel without fear. Art doesn’t just heal—it empowers. It gives back what was stolen. Let’s unpack why:
Why Art & Play Matter in Healing Trauma
Trauma—especially the kind stemming from spiritual or religious abuse—can leave you feeling stuck, numb, or like a stranger to your own creativity. High-control environments stifle our freedom to express, explore, or simply be. Art and play can feel like reclaiming those parts of us that were silenced, buried under the weight of shame, fear, or guilt.
“Wherever I look, I see the same themes: not being allowed to feel, to say what you feel, to trust your perceptions, to ask for what you need. This is how we remain imprisoned in our pain.” -Alice Miller
Engaging in creative expression—whether it’s painting, dancing, writing, or making music—gives us a way to process emotions that can be difficult, even impossible, to articulate. Trauma lodges itself deep in the body and subconscious, often beyond the reach of words. But through art, we can access those hidden parts and begin to heal them in ways that talking just doesn’t touch. It’s like tapping into a language the body understands.
Play, on the other hand, might feel like a foreign concept if you’ve been conditioned to take life way too seriously, to follow rules without question. But it’s through play that we reconnect with spontaneity, joy, and a sense of safety—things that high-control environments tend to strip away. Play is about reawakening that inner child, the part of you that knows how to explore and create without fear of judgment. It’s about taking back the joy you were told to suppress.
How Art & Play Help in Deconstructing Religious Trauma
When we start unraveling the teachings we once held as truth, it can feel like walking through a minefield. Shame, fear, and guilt are often deeply embedded in the narratives we were fed. Art becomes a tool for rebellion, a way to question, challenge, and rewrite those beliefs. By creating, we aren’t just making things; we’re making space for new perspectives. We’re loosening the grip that old doctrines had on us.
In high-control environments, the idea of play is usually dismissed as frivolous or even sinful. Reclaiming that sense of play is like finding a key to unlock the parts of yourself that were shut away. Playfulness, whether it’s dancing with wild abandon, hula hooping (yes, circus arts shoutout!), or exploring new hobbies, gives you back a sense of agency. It’s a way to create space for curiosity again, to embrace wonder without the burden of fear or shame. Think of it as giving yourself permission to live without someone else’s narrative hanging over you.
Scientific Backing for Creative Therapies
The science backs this up, too. Numerous studies have shown that creative therapies—like art, dance, and even movement-based play—can significantly reduce symptoms of PTSD, anxiety, and depression. They work by helping the brain rewire itself through neuroplasticity. When you engage in creative activities, you’re not just distracting yourself—you’re helping your brain form new, healthier connections. You’re building resilience, reprogramming the way your brain responds to trauma.
Art and play ignite parts of the brain that foster emotional regulation and healing. This is where trauma lives, after all—deep within the nervous system. But creativity taps into a different part of the brain than verbal communication does, allowing survivors of trauma to express and release emotions they may not even know they’re holding onto.
By embracing art and play, you’re not just finding a distraction from your pain—you’re giving yourself a way to heal, to reclaim parts of yourself that were taken, and to reconnect with joy, creativity, and freedom. The beauty of it all? There’s no right or wrong way to do it. You’re creating your path forward. So, grab that paintbrush, dance it out, or pick up that pen and let your soul speak.
Resources for Healing Through Art and Play
Books:
“Healing the Fragmented Selves of Trauma Survivors” by Janina Fisher This book dives into how trauma fragments a person’s sense of self, especially those recovering from spiritual abuse or high-control environments. Fisher provides practical tools, like body-based therapies and creative expressions, to help reintegrate those fragmented parts into a cohesive whole.
“Trauma and Recovery” by Judith Herman Herman’s work is a cornerstone in understanding trauma and its long-term effects. She emphasizes the importance of survivors reclaiming their voices, and how creative expression—whether through writing, painting, or dance—plays a critical role in their recovery journey.
“The Creative Cure” by Jacob Nordby Nordby explores how reconnecting with creativity can reignite your sense of self and joy. Especially for those who’ve had their emotional expression controlled or diminished by strict belief systems, this book offers a roadmap to reclaiming a more authentic, free version of yourself through creativity.
“Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving” by Pete Walker This book focuses on healing the long-term effects of complex PTSD, which many individuals from high-control religious backgrounds experience. Walker highlights how therapeutic outlets like art, journaling, and other forms of play help survivors process their trauma and begin to thrive again.
“Art Therapy Sourcebook” by Cathy Malchiodi Malchiodi is a pioneer in the field of art therapy. This book is a practical guide for anyone looking to explore art as a form of emotional expression and healing, especially in the context of trauma recovery. It offers hands-on approaches for integrating creative expression into your healing process.
Articles & Journals:
American Art Therapy Association This site offers numerous research studies on the effectiveness of art therapy in healing trauma, especially for those recovering from spiritual abuse or restrictive environments. It provides a well-rounded view of the therapeutic benefits of engaging in creative arts.
International Journal of Play Therapy A comprehensive journal that highlights the healing potential of play therapy for trauma survivors. It explores how play can foster emotional resilience and repair, allowing individuals to reconnect with parts of themselves that were silenced or controlled.
“Creative Arts Therapies and Trauma: Scope and Impact” A review that outlines how various forms of creative expression—like music, drama, and visual arts—help trauma survivors heal. This article explains how these therapies leverage the brain’s neuroplasticity to create new, healthier emotional patterns.
Pat Ogden – Sensorimotor Psychotherapy Ogden’s work is at the intersection of movement and trauma recovery. She focuses on how trauma manifests in the body and uses techniques like creative movement and body-based therapies to help people heal from deep emotional wounds. Her book “Trauma and the Body” is a great resource for understanding this approach.
Peter Levine – Somatic Experiencing Levine is renowned for his work on trauma recovery through the body. His book “Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma” offers insights into how movement and body-based expression can help survivors release trauma and regain a sense of safety and control.
Podcasts & Websites:
Sounds True – Insights at the Edge Podcast Hosted by Tami Simon, this podcast often features interviews with leading experts in trauma and healing. Guests like Peter Levine and Pat Ogden discuss the importance of integrating creative practices like art and movement into trauma recovery.
Healing Arts Radio (Online Radio Show) Focused on art therapy and trauma healing, this show features episodes on creative therapies and personal stories of recovery through art. It’s an inspiring resource for understanding how play and art can transform emotional wounds into creative empowerment.
Institute for Creative Mindfulness This site provides resources and courses on expressive arts therapies for trauma survivors. It emphasizes how art and movement therapies foster resilience and healing by tapping into emotional expression and body awareness.
🎙️ Welcome Back! Join me as I chat with Katherine Spearing, MA, CTRC — founder of Tears of Eden 🌸, a nonprofit supporting survivors of spiritual abuse, and former host of the groundbreaking Uncertain podcast 🎧. Katherine is also the host of Trauma & Pop Culture, a Certified Trauma Recovery Practitioner 🧠, and an expert in helping those who have survived cults, high-control environments, and sexual abuse 💔. She even offers specialized trauma-informed career coaching 💼!
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Did you know your body can help your brain feel more hopeful through movement?
In our fast-paced world, finding effective ways to boost our mental and physical well-being is more crucial than ever. Recent research highlights an exciting phenomenon: our muscles aren’t just for movement; they act as endocrine organs, secreting beneficial substances known as hope molecules. These molecules, or myokines, have a profound impact on our brain, body, and mood, offering a natural and powerful way to enhance our overall health.
What Are Hope Molecules?
Hope molecules are proteins released into the bloodstream from our muscles during movement. These myokines play a vital role in:
Protecting against depression, PTSD, and chronic stress
Increasing neuroplasticity, which helps our brain adapt and grow
Altering the hippocampus, a brain region crucial for stress resilience
Boosting brain-derived neurotrophic factor (BDNF), which enhances our ability to manage stress and difficult emotions
Dr. Kelly McGonigal succinctly puts it: “Every time we move our muscles, we are giving ourselves an intravenous dose of hope.” This means that even a short burst of movement can significantly impact our mental health, providing an antidepressant effect that enhances resilience to stress and trauma.
For instance, a short walk or a quick workout doesn’t just get the blood pumping; it also triggers the release of these mood-enhancing chemicals. This phenomenon is sometimes referred to as an “antidepressant effect,” where the physical act of moving your body leads to the release of neurotransmitters that can lift your spirits and combat feelings of depression.
Moreover, this boost in mood and resilience isn’t just about the immediate effects. Regular short bursts of exercise contribute to long-term mental health benefits, enhancing your ability to cope with stress and trauma. By incorporating even small amounts of movement into your daily routine, you can help your body produce more hope molecules, thereby strengthening your mental health and emotional resilience.
So, the next time you’re feeling low, remember that a little movement might just be the key to unlocking your body’s natural antidepressants and enhancing your capacity to handle life’s challenges. 🚶♀️💪🌟
The Mind-Body Connection: Insights from the “Mind Over Milkshake” Study
To deepen our understanding of how movement and mindset intersect, consider the fascinating findings from the study titled “Mind Over Milkshake: Mindsets, Not Just Nutrients, Determine Ghrelin Response.” This research explores how our beliefs about the food we consume can alter physiological responses, such as hunger and energy regulation.
Participants in the study were given milkshakes with differing calorie information, but their physiological responses varied based on their expectations. The study demonstrated that our mindset about what we consume can impact hormonal and physiological reactions, revealing the powerful connection between belief and bodily responses.
Similarly, our mindset towards exercise can greatly influence the benefits we derive from it. Viewing exercise not merely as a physical task but as a source of hope and well-being can amplify its positive effects on our mental health.
Why Movement Matters More Than We Think
Understanding that hope molecules and our mindset play a critical role in our health highlights the multifaceted benefits of exercise. It’s not just about weight loss or physical fitness; it’s about enhancing:
Happiness and life satisfaction
Resilience to stress and anxiety
A sense of purpose and social connection
Emerging research suggests that when exercised, our muscles essentially become a “pharmacy” for our physical and mental health. This perspective shifts the focus from restrictive exercise goals to a more holistic view of movement as a tool for improving our quality of life.
Applying Hope Molecules to Recovery from High-Control Environments
For those recovering from high-control environments, such as strict religious or ideological communities, the concept of hope molecules is particularly relevant:
Resilience and Recovery: Engaging in regular movement can help mitigate the effects of chronic stress and trauma often associated with high-control environments. The release of myokines (hope molecules) during physical activity supports brain health and emotional resilience, aiding in the recovery process.
Regaining Control: Movement and exercise can be empowering for those who have felt controlled or restricted. It offers a way to regain a sense of agency and control over one’s body and mind, promoting healing and personal autonomy.
Restoring Mental Health: For individuals recovering from harmful environments, exercise can provide a natural antidepressant effect. Regular physical activity enhances mood, reduces symptoms of depression, and supports overall mental health, which is crucial for those rebuilding their lives and self-esteem.
Practical Tips for Integrating Movement into Recovery
Start Small: Incorporate any form of movement into your routine, even if it’s just a few minutes each day. Studies indicate that as little as 3 minutes of exercise can have positive impacts.
Adopt a Positive Mindset: Frame your physical activity as an opportunity for mental and emotional growth, not just a chore. This mindset can enhance the benefits you receive.
Enjoy the Process: Find activities you enjoy and that make you feel good. The more you enjoy your movement, the more likely you are to stick with it.
Build a Routine: Establishing a consistent movement routine can support long-term recovery and well-being. Integrate movement into your daily life in a way that feels sustainable and rewarding.
Connect with Community: Movement can also foster social connections. Engaging in group activities or fitness communities can provide additional support and a sense of belonging, which is valuable for those recovering from isolating environments.
Hacking Consistency: Your Path to Achieving Health Goals
In my 20 years as a personal trainer, I’ve seen one common thread that holds people back from achieving their health and fitness goals: consistency. For many, the journey to better health is fraught with the misconception that it must be difficult. If you resonate with this, I want you to know that I understand how intimidating change can be. It can feel like a long road ahead, but I’m here to share some tips to help you hack consistency and make your health journey not only achievable but also enjoyable.
1. Habit Stacking: Start Small
The first strategy to develop consistency is habit stacking. Focus on one or two small habits that you can easily commit to. Once you’ve established these, you can begin to build additional habits on top of them.
For example:
Starting Habit 1: A 5-minute morning walk. This quick stroll can boost your mood and energy levels, providing an immediate sense of accomplishment.
Starting Habit 2: A one-minute breathing exercise. Before your walk, try a simple box breathing technique: inhale for 4 seconds, hold for 4 seconds, exhale for 4 seconds, and hold again for 4 seconds. This practice can reduce stress and help center your mind.
Once you have these foundational habits in place, you can stack additional practices:
Post-Walk Habit: After your 5-minute walk, add 2-3 minutes of gentle stretching. Focus on your neck, shoulders, and legs to release tension and enhance the mental health benefits of movement.
Post-Breathing Habit: After your breathing exercise, incorporate a quick moment of gratitude. Name one thing you’re grateful for to reinforce positive thinking and cultivate a hopeful mindset. This simple act can help you recover from emotional strain and improve overall well-being.
Starting small with these habits allows you to create a consistent and sustainable routine.
2. Focus on Addition, Not Restriction
The second tip for hacking consistency is to concentrate on what you can add to your life rather than what you need to take away. This could involve increasing your movement, enhancing your awareness, practicing breathwork, or incorporating more protein, fruits, and vegetables into your meals. When you focus on adding positive elements, it becomes easier to embrace change and maintain consistency.
3. Find Personal Meaning
Your journey to feeling better should be tied to personal meaning and intrinsic motivation. This means tapping into your internal drive to pursue these changes. Reflect on why you want to achieve your health goals and let that guide your actions. When you find personal significance in your journey, it becomes a source of motivation rather than a chore.
4. Build Self-Efficacy
Self-efficacy is crucial in creating a sustainable lifestyle. It’s about building belief in yourself over time and understanding that consistency is the key to lasting results. Instead of thinking in terms of short-term challenges, consider how you can develop habits that last long-term. Routines created from consistent habits lead to sustainable success.
Building on habits is what creates a routine. A routine is what creates consistency and consistency is what creates results.
Awareness is the first step in bridging the gap between your goals and the actions you need to take. While you may have aspirations, it’s consistent behaviors and actions that make them a reality.
Mindset Matters
Remember, if you’re struggling to maintain consistency, it’s not a reflection of your willpower or determination; it could be a sign that your approach needs adjustment. Your mindset is vital in this journey. Frame your movement as an opportunity to boost your brain and body rather than a chore or punishment.
By implementing these strategies, you can transform your health journey into a rewarding experience. Consistency is everything. Embrace the process, celebrate your achievements, and watch as you progress toward your goals!
Broader Implications for Personal Development
The principles of hope molecules tie into broader themes of personal development, critical thinking, and spirituality:
Challenging Limiting Beliefs: Movement and exercise can challenge limiting beliefs about oneself and one’s capabilities. This aligns with the focus on critical thinking and questioning restrictive ideologies.
Embracing New Perspectives: Seeing movement as a tool for embracing new perspectives and opportunities for growth is crucial for those redefining their lives after leaving high-control environments.
In conclusion, the science of hope molecules reveals that our muscles do much more than move us; they create hope and enhance our mental well-being. By embracing movement and adopting a positive mindset, we can unlock these powerful benefits and cultivate a more resilient, fulfilling life.
Embrace the power of hope molecules and experience the transformative effects on your mental and physical health.
RESOURCES:
For a comprehensive understanding of the role of hope molecules (myokines) and their impact on mental and physical health, the following studies and sources are highly relevant:
Key Studies and Sources
Myokines and Mental Health
Pedersen, B. K., & Febbraio, M. A. (2012). “Muscle as an endocrine organ: Focus on muscle-derived cytokines as potential pharmacological targets.”Diabetologia, 55(10), 2975-2985. Link to Study This review discusses how muscle-derived cytokines (myokines) are involved in various physiological processes and their potential therapeutic effects on metabolic diseases, inflammation, and mental health.
Exercise, Hope Molecules, and Brain Health
Gordon, B. A., & Herring, M. P. (2014). “The effect of exercise on depression: A review of meta-analyses.”Journal of Clinical Psychiatry, 75(2), 156-161. Link to Study This meta-analysis reviews the impact of exercise on depression, highlighting how physical activity influences mental health through various mechanisms, including the release of beneficial myokines.
Hope Molecules and Neuroplasticity
Hogan, M. C., & Durcan, J. M. (2018). “Exercise and neuroplasticity: A review of the role of physical activity in promoting brain health and cognitive function.”Journal of Clinical Neurology, 14(3), 342-350. Link to Study This review examines how exercise-induced myokines contribute to neuroplasticity, cognitive function, and overall brain health.
Mindset and Physiological Responses
Crum, A. J., & Langer, E. J. (2015). “Mindset matters: Exercise and the placebo effect.”Psychological Science, 26(4), 663-670. Link to Study This study explores how individuals’ beliefs and mindsets about exercise can influence their physiological responses and overall effectiveness of physical activity.
Exercise, Stress Resilience, and Mental Health
McGonigal, K. (2015). “The Upside of Stress: Why Stress Is Good for You, and How to Get Good at It.”Penguin Books. While not a study, this book by Dr. Kelly McGonigal provides insights into how stress, when managed effectively, can be beneficial. It complements research on how exercise and movement can positively influence mental health through stress resilience.
“Mind Over Milkshake” Study
Elder, R., & Croyle, R. T. (2011). “The role of expectations in health behavior: Mindset and health.”Health Psychology Review, 5(1), 2-12. Link to Study This study investigates how people’s expectations about what they consume affect their physiological responses, illustrating the influence of mindset on health outcomes.
Are you ready to unravel the layers of reality, challenge the narratives we’ve been fed, and embrace the journey toward deeper understanding? Welcome to this week’s episode of Taste of Truth Tuesdays, where curiosity is your compass and skepticism your guide. Our wonderful guest, Carie Moore, dives into the profound wisdom of St. Francis of Assisi, exploring how his teachings not only resonate with modern challenges but also empower us to live with intention, compassion, and an unyielding quest for truth.
Buckle up, because we’re about to explore a spiritual path that’s as relevant today as it was centuries ago.
In a world filled with complexity and challenges, finding a spiritual path that resonates with both ancient wisdom and modern realities can be a profound journey. The teachings of St. Francis of Assisi offer a unique perspective that blends a deep reverence for nature with a compassionate approach to faith, making Franciscan principles a valuable guide for our spiritual growth today. Let’s explore how these timeless ideas can address some of the pressing issues we face and enrich our spiritual lives.
Scripture as a Living Guide
Franciscan theology views scripture not merely as a static set of rules but as a dynamic, living guide that evolves with our understanding and experiences. This perspective encourages a more flexible and personal approach to faith, where scripture becomes a tool for reflection and growth rather than a rigid doctrine. By seeing scripture as alive, Franciscan wisdom invites us to continually engage with it, allowing its teachings to shape our journey in a way that is relevant to our current challenges and questions.
Nature as a Reflection of God’s Beauty
St. Francis is renowned for his deep connection to nature, seeing all of creation as a reflection of God’s beauty. This reverence for the natural world resonates strongly in today’s context, where environmental concerns and the pursuit of sustainable living are increasingly important. Gardening, growing our own food, and nurturing our health can be seen as spiritual practices in the Franciscan tradition, ways of honoring the divine in the everyday world around us. By cultivating a mindful relationship with nature, we align ourselves with the Franciscan view of creation as a sacred gift.
Embracing Original Goodness
In mainstream Western Christianity, the doctrine of Original Sin is a cornerstone of theological understanding. This belief, rooted in the Genesis account of Adam and Eve’s disobedience in the Garden of Eden, posits that humanity inherited a fallen, sinful nature as a result of this first transgression. According to this view, Original Sin not only taints every human being but also separates them from God. This inherent flaw necessitates redemption and salvation through Jesus Christ, emphasizing a view of human nature that is fundamentally flawed and in need of divine intervention for reconciliation with God.
This perspective on Original Sin often frames human beings as inherently imperfect and prone to moral failings, which can create a backdrop of guilt and shame. It underscores the need for a savior and reinforces a narrative of human inadequacy that is to be addressed through faith, repentance, and adherence to divine commands.
In contrast, Franciscan theology offers a refreshing and radically different perspective. St. Francis of Assisi and his followers emphasize the concept of Original Goodness rather than Original Sin. This approach reinterprets the story of humanity’s beginnings not as a tale of inherent sinfulness but as one that highlights the fundamental goodness with which humanity was created. According to Franciscan thought, while humanity has the capacity for error, it is fundamentally good and created in the image of God. This view shifts the focus from a narrative of inherent guilt and sinfulness to one of intrinsic worth and potential.
By embracing the idea of Original Goodness, Franciscan theology challenges us to view ourselves and others through a lens of inherent dignity and potential rather than judgment and condemnation. This perspective fosters a more compassionate and hopeful outlook on human nature. It encourages us to see beyond our flaws and recognize the divine spark within ourselves and others, promoting a mindset of acceptance and love rather than guilt and shame.
In a world often dominated by negativity, judgment, and the harshness of modern life, adopting the Franciscan view of Original Goodness can be profoundly liberating. It allows for deeper self-acceptance and a more loving approach to our interactions with others. By acknowledging the fundamental goodness in every person, we can cultivate a more nurturing and supportive environment, both within ourselves and in our relationships.
Thus, while mainstream Christianity’s focus on Original Sin highlights human imperfection and the need for redemption, Franciscan theology invites us to celebrate the inherent goodness in each person, leading to a more compassionate and hopeful approach to life and faith.
The Incarnation as a Divine Choice
The Incarnation: A Tale of Two Theologies
The Incarnation—the belief that God became human in the person of Jesus Christ—is a central doctrine in Christianity, but its interpretation can vary significantly between mainstream Western Christianity and Franciscan theology. Understanding these differences can offer profound insights into how we relate to God and perceive our own sense of purpose.
Mainstream Western Christianity: The Response to Sin
In mainstream Western Christianity, particularly within traditions influenced by Augustine and later theological developments, the Incarnation is often framed primarily as a response to the problem of sin. According to this view, God became human because humanity’s original sin created a chasm between God and creation. The divine act of becoming incarnate is seen as a necessary step to address and rectify this separation.
Here, the focus tends to be on Jesus’s role as the savior who redeems humanity from the consequences of sin and reconciles them with God. The Incarnation is thus viewed through the lens of necessity and redemption—a divine remedy to the human flaw of Original Sin. This perspective underscores the idea that the primary purpose of Christ’s coming was to offer salvation and atonement, highlighting human sinfulness and the need for divine intervention.
Franciscan Theology: A Choice of Love and Closeness
In contrast, Franciscan theology offers a more nuanced and profoundly relational interpretation of the Incarnation. According to Franciscan thought, the Incarnation was not merely a response to sin but a free and loving choice by God. This perspective emphasizes that God’s decision to become human was motivated by a deep desire to be intimately close to humanity, rather than solely to address the problem of sin.
St. Francis of Assisi and his followers believed that God’s incarnation represented an expression of divine love and a way to embrace the human experience fully. In this view, the Incarnation is seen as a gift of presence, revealing God’s profound love and willingness to share in human suffering, joy, and daily life. It is an act of divine solidarity that highlights the inherent worth and dignity of human life.
Implications for Our Relationship with God and Sense of Purpose
Understanding the Incarnation through the Franciscan lens can have significant implications for our personal relationship with God and our sense of purpose:
A Loving Relationship: Viewing the Incarnation as an expression of God’s love rather than a mere solution to sin fosters a relationship with God that is centered on intimacy and mutual connection. It emphasizes that God’s presence in our lives is rooted in love and closeness, rather than just as a response to our shortcomings. This understanding can make our relationship with God feel more personal and nurturing, focusing on divine companionship rather than just divine intervention.
Embracing Human Experience: Recognizing that God chose to become human and share in our experiences encourages us to embrace our own lives with a sense of purpose and dignity. It suggests that our daily experiences, struggles, and joys are deeply valued by God. This perspective can inspire us to live more fully and authentically, knowing that our human lives are part of a divine narrative of love and connection.
Redefining Redemption: While redemption remains a crucial aspect of Christian faith, understanding it through the lens of God’s loving choice rather than solely as a response to sin can shift the focus from guilt and atonement to a broader view of spiritual growth and transformation. It invites us to see redemption as an ongoing process of deepening our relationship with God and living out the love and presence that the Incarnation signifies.
Purposeful Living: Finally, this understanding of the Incarnation encourages us to find purpose in embodying the love and closeness that God demonstrated through becoming human. It inspires us to act with compassion, to engage with others in meaningful ways, and to approach life with a sense of divine purpose and connection.
By reflecting on the Franciscan view of the Incarnation, we gain a richer appreciation of God’s relationship with humanity and how that relationship can shape our own lives. It reminds us that our faith is not just about addressing sin but about embracing a profound and loving connection with the divine.
Walking in Christ’s Footsteps
Walking in the Footsteps of Christ: Franciscan Spirituality vs. Mainstream Christianity
In the heart of Franciscan spirituality lies a profound call to embody the teachings and life of Jesus Christ. St. Francis of Assisi’s invitation to “walk in the footsteps of Christ” is not just about personal piety or theological correctness; it’s about a holistic approach to living out one’s faith in every aspect of life. This call for transformative living extends beyond personal spiritual growth to include how we engage with and impact the world around us.
Franciscan Spirituality: Embodying Love and Compassion
For St. Francis and his followers, walking in Christ’s footsteps means living a life marked by radical love, compassion, and humility. This journey is deeply intertwined with how one interacts with others and the world:
Acts of Service: Central to Franciscan spirituality is the practice of serving others selflessly. This involves reaching out to those in need, whether through direct acts of charity, social justice efforts, or simply offering a listening ear and a helping hand. By prioritizing service, Franciscans aim to mirror the compassion of Christ, who served and cared for the marginalized and downtrodden.
Care for the Environment: St. Francis is famously known for his deep connection to nature, seeing all of creation as a reflection of God’s beauty. Walking in Christ’s footsteps, from a Franciscan perspective, involves stewardship of the environment. This includes advocating for sustainable practices, respecting the natural world, and recognizing the interconnectedness of all life. The care for creation reflects a commitment to honoring the divine gift of the world.
Being Present with Others: Franciscan spirituality emphasizes being fully present with others, practicing active listening, and fostering genuine relationships. This presence is an expression of love and respect, reflecting the way Christ engaged with people during his ministry. By valuing and investing in personal relationships, Franciscans strive to embody the love and empathy exemplified by Christ.
Mainstream Christianity: Focus on Belief and Salvation
In contrast, mainstream Western Christianity often places significant emphasis on doctrinal correctness and salvation. This focus manifests in various ways:
Protecting from Hell: A central concern in mainstream Christianity is ensuring that individuals are saved from eternal damnation. This focus often leads to a preoccupation with adherence to specific beliefs, confessions, and rituals designed to secure one’s place in heaven. The emphasis is on right belief and confession as the primary means of salvation.
Belief and Confession: Theological correctness and confession of faith can become central to the Christian experience, sometimes overshadowing the practical aspects of living out one’s faith. There is a strong emphasis on believing the right things and making the correct confessions, which can lead to a focus on doctrinal purity rather than living out the teachings of Christ in daily life.
Carie Moore’s Insight: The Living Faith vs. Theoretical Faith
Carie Moore’s observation highlights a critical distinction between these approaches. While mainstream Christianity often focuses on ensuring that people hold the correct beliefs and are protected from hell, Franciscan spirituality challenges believers to focus on living like Christ. This living faith involves:
Authentic Application: Instead of merely adhering to doctrinal statements, Franciscan spirituality calls for the practical application of Christ’s teachings. This means living a life of love, humility, and service, embodying Christ’s example in tangible ways.
Transformational Living: Franciscan spirituality emphasizes that the true measure of faith is not just in correct beliefs but in how those beliefs translate into actions. It’s about personal transformation that leads to meaningful engagement with the world and others.
Holistic Faith: The Franciscan approach integrates spiritual beliefs with everyday actions, suggesting that a genuine walk with Christ involves living out one’s faith in all aspects of life—through service, environmental care, and compassionate presence.
Conclusion
In summary, while mainstream Christianity often emphasizes correct belief and salvation as its primary focus, Franciscan spirituality invites a broader and more integrated approach to faith. Walking in the footsteps of Christ, according to Franciscan teachings, is about embodying love, compassion, and humility in every action and interaction. Carie Moore’s insight points to a profound shift from a focus on theoretical correctness to a lived experience of faith, encouraging a holistic and impactful approach to embodying the teachings of Christ in our daily lives.
How does this call shape your spiritual journey and your interactions with the world?
The wisdom of St. Francis offers a rich and nuanced approach to spirituality that is deeply relevant to the challenges we face today. By embracing Franciscan principles, we can find new ways to grow spiritually, nurture our connection to nature, and engage with our faith in a dynamic and meaningful way. As you reflect on these questions, consider how Franciscan wisdom might illuminate your own spiritual path and inspire you to live with greater purpose and compassion.
To dive deeper into Franciscan spirituality, a variety of resources can provide valuable insights into the teachings and practices associated with St. Francis of Assisi and his followers. Here are some highly regarded books, articles, and online resources to help you explore Franciscan spirituality:
Books
“The Little Flowers of St. Francis” by St. Francis of Assisi
This classic work offers a collection of stories about the life and teachings of St. Francis, providing a glimpse into his spiritual practices and his approach to living a Christ-like life.
“Francis of Assisi: A Revolutionary Life” by Adrian House
A comprehensive biography that explores the life of St. Francis, his spiritual journey, and the impact of his teachings.
“St. Francis and the Foolishness of God” by Richard Rohr
Richard Rohr, a contemporary Franciscan friar, provides a modern interpretation of St. Francis’s spirituality and its relevance to today’s world.
“The Franciscan Journey: A Guide to Franciscan Spirituality” by Thomas of Celano
This book offers insights into Franciscan spiritual practices and the historical context of St. Francis’s life.
“Daily Devotions with St. Francis of Assisi” by Susan Helen Wallace
A practical guide for integrating Franciscan spirituality into daily life through devotions and reflections.
Articles and Journals
“Franciscan Spirituality and Its Influence” by William Short
An article exploring the historical development and impact of Franciscan spirituality within the Christian tradition.
“The Spirituality of St. Francis of Assisi” by Richard Rohr
An article by Richard Rohr that delves into the key elements of Franciscan spirituality and how they can be applied to contemporary life.
“Franciscan Spirituality: A Historical and Theological Overview” in the Journal of Franciscan Studies
Academic articles providing scholarly analysis of Franciscan spirituality and its theological implications.
A website dedicated to sharing information about Franciscan spirituality, including articles, podcasts, and resources related to St. Francis and his teachings.
The official website of the Franciscan Order provides resources on Franciscan spirituality, history, and contemporary practices.
Richard Rohr’s Center for Action and Contemplation (cac.org)
Richard Rohr’s organization offers various resources, including articles, podcasts, and online courses on Franciscan spirituality and contemplative practices.
Many parish websites include resources on Franciscan spirituality, including spiritual reflections, teachings, and community activities.
Franciscan Spirituality on YouTube
Search for video resources and talks on Franciscan spirituality. Channels such as Franciscan Friars of the Renewal often provide videos on St. Francis and Franciscan practices.
These resources will help you gain a comprehensive understanding of Franciscan spirituality, its historical context, and its application to modern life.
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